Happy Friday?

theartistformerlyknownas · May 2015

lacqueredlover said:

lolo883 said:

lacqueredlover said:

kaos16 said:

charcoalandblush said:
Tonight I'm bringing my pup Elle to my parents house to meet their dog Dodger! Should be interesting haha. Hopefully they get along and my parents can babysit her when I go to a wedding next week.

I need the time away from the city, my ex has been contacting me lately and even just seeing his name in my email upsets me and I finally had to tell him to stop contacting me or I'll get a restraining order (I don't even know if that's possibly for technology communications but I just can't take being so upset all the time.)

Sunday I just found out my brother is coming into NYC for the UPfronts and will therefore join us for Mother's Day brunch so I"m very excited! Also doing some spin and just generally relaxing.

I'm so sorry you're going through that. It is definitely possible to get an order for him to stop contacting you. It may be easier or harder depending on the content of his messages. Save every email/text/phone bill with his calls listed, even though I know it's probably hard on you. And PM me if you need help/have questions about it. My sorority did volunteer work with the local women's shelter, so I'm at least somewhat familiar with this stuff.
I'm not sure I agree with this. While potentially stressful and hurtful, if he is just emailing mundane things like saying hi, or asking if she has seen an item he left when they split up, I don't think there are grounds for an order of protection in NY. Without knowing more about the conversations we can't be sure if she can get one.

Mini threadjack: In NY if you text or email someone to tell them you are going to punch them in the face it is a worse offense than if you just punch them in the face (provided you don't do substantial damage to their face). I always find that funny.
I'm not actually taking out a restraining order on him. He's just been emailing me for the last 10 days (it would have been our anniversary) and it's sent me into a tailspin after I've asked him not to contact me. I just dont' want to see his name on my email anymore, it's not fair to me.
Mark him as spam.

I had, then he emailed me from his work email last night (hadn't thought I needed to do that on top of blocking his phone number) and it just upset me again. It's just crappy that he wasn't respecting my wishes of not contacting me

Well yeah, he's definitely a douche.

I had an ex track me down on Linked In a few months ago. Super weird. Go away, dude.

julieanne912 · May 2015

lacqueredlover said:

lolo883 said:

lacqueredlover said:

kaos16 said:

charcoalandblush said:
Tonight I'm bringing my pup Elle to my parents house to meet their dog Dodger! Should be interesting haha. Hopefully they get along and my parents can babysit her when I go to a wedding next week.

I need the time away from the city, my ex has been contacting me lately and even just seeing his name in my email upsets me and I finally had to tell him to stop contacting me or I'll get a restraining order (I don't even know if that's possibly for technology communications but I just can't take being so upset all the time.)

Sunday I just found out my brother is coming into NYC for the UPfronts and will therefore join us for Mother's Day brunch so I"m very excited! Also doing some spin and just generally relaxing.

I'm so sorry you're going through that. It is definitely possible to get an order for him to stop contacting you. It may be easier or harder depending on the content of his messages. Save every email/text/phone bill with his calls listed, even though I know it's probably hard on you. And PM me if you need help/have questions about it. My sorority did volunteer work with the local women's shelter, so I'm at least somewhat familiar with this stuff.
I'm not sure I agree with this. While potentially stressful and hurtful, if he is just emailing mundane things like saying hi, or asking if she has seen an item he left when they split up, I don't think there are grounds for an order of protection in NY. Without knowing more about the conversations we can't be sure if she can get one.

Mini threadjack: In NY if you text or email someone to tell them you are going to punch them in the face it is a worse offense than if you just punch them in the face (provided you don't do substantial damage to their face). I always find that funny.
I'm not actually taking out a restraining order on him. He's just been emailing me for the last 10 days (it would have been our anniversary) and it's sent me into a tailspin after I've asked him not to contact me. I just dont' want to see his name on my email anymore, it's not fair to me.
Mark him as spam.

I had, then he emailed me from his work email last night (hadn't thought I needed to do that on top of blocking his phone number) and it just upset me again. It's just crappy that he wasn't respecting my wishes of not contacting me

Can you put a block on your email from any email address that comes from his name?

kaos16 · May 2015

lacqueredlover said:

lolo883 said:

lacqueredlover said:

kaos16 said:

charcoalandblush said:
Tonight I'm bringing my pup Elle to my parents house to meet their dog Dodger! Should be interesting haha. Hopefully they get along and my parents can babysit her when I go to a wedding next week.

I need the time away from the city, my ex has been contacting me lately and even just seeing his name in my email upsets me and I finally had to tell him to stop contacting me or I'll get a restraining order (I don't even know if that's possibly for technology communications but I just can't take being so upset all the time.)

Sunday I just found out my brother is coming into NYC for the UPfronts and will therefore join us for Mother's Day brunch so I"m very excited! Also doing some spin and just generally relaxing.

I'm so sorry you're going through that. It is definitely possible to get an order for him to stop contacting you. It may be easier or harder depending on the content of his messages. Save every email/text/phone bill with his calls listed, even though I know it's probably hard on you. And PM me if you need help/have questions about it. My sorority did volunteer work with the local women's shelter, so I'm at least somewhat familiar with this stuff.
I'm not sure I agree with this. While potentially stressful and hurtful, if he is just emailing mundane things like saying hi, or asking if she has seen an item he left when they split up, I don't think there are grounds for an order of protection in NY. Without knowing more about the conversations we can't be sure if she can get one.

Mini threadjack: In NY if you text or email someone to tell them you are going to punch them in the face it is a worse offense than if you just punch them in the face (provided you don't do substantial damage to their face). I always find that funny.
I'm not actually taking out a restraining order on him. He's just been emailing me for the last 10 days (it would have been our anniversary) and it's sent me into a tailspin after I've asked him not to contact me. I just dont' want to see his name on my email anymore, it's not fair to me.
Mark him as spam.

I had, then he emailed me from his work email last night (hadn't thought I needed to do that on top of blocking his phone number) and it just upset me again. It's just crappy that he wasn't respecting my wishes of not contacting me

That's really frustrating. I am sorry that you are going through this.

chibiyui · May 2015

I made a cake (waiting for Amazon to deliver my unflavored gelatin so I can make the stabilized whipped cream icing. And then I put together my teacup planter and started converting a large planter into a fairy garden ish thing.

would love any advice/criticism on the large planter. Little dragon is unfinished, debating if I should paint him a different color or not.

decembergrl2014 · May 2015

DH is getting the kids tonight. Tomorrow we're going to a bowling fundraiser that a friend of mine from high school is organizing. All of the proceeds go towards finding cures for pediatric and blood cancers. There's also going to be a bake sale so the kids are helping me bake and frost cupcakes.

Sunday the kids will be with their mother, and DH and I will be with my family for Mother's Day.

FiancB · May 2015

lolo883 said:

lacqueredlover said:

lolo883 said:

lacqueredlover said:

kaos16 said:

charcoalandblush said:
Tonight I'm bringing my pup Elle to my parents house to meet their dog Dodger! Should be interesting haha. Hopefully they get along and my parents can babysit her when I go to a wedding next week.

I need the time away from the city, my ex has been contacting me lately and even just seeing his name in my email upsets me and I finally had to tell him to stop contacting me or I'll get a restraining order (I don't even know if that's possibly for technology communications but I just can't take being so upset all the time.)

Sunday I just found out my brother is coming into NYC for the UPfronts and will therefore join us for Mother's Day brunch so I"m very excited! Also doing some spin and just generally relaxing.

I'm so sorry you're going through that. It is definitely possible to get an order for him to stop contacting you. It may be easier or harder depending on the content of his messages. Save every email/text/phone bill with his calls listed, even though I know it's probably hard on you. And PM me if you need help/have questions about it. My sorority did volunteer work with the local women's shelter, so I'm at least somewhat familiar with this stuff.
I'm not sure I agree with this. While potentially stressful and hurtful, if he is just emailing mundane things like saying hi, or asking if she has seen an item he left when they split up, I don't think there are grounds for an order of protection in NY. Without knowing more about the conversations we can't be sure if she can get one.

Mini threadjack: In NY if you text or email someone to tell them you are going to punch them in the face it is a worse offense than if you just punch them in the face (provided you don't do substantial damage to their face). I always find that funny.
I'm not actually taking out a restraining order on him. He's just been emailing me for the last 10 days (it would have been our anniversary) and it's sent me into a tailspin after I've asked him not to contact me. I just dont' want to see his name on my email anymore, it's not fair to me.
Mark him as spam.
I had, then he emailed me from his work email last night (hadn't thought I needed to do that on top of blocking his phone number) and it just upset me again. It's just crappy that he wasn't respecting my wishes of not contacting me

Well yeah, he's definitely a douche.

I had an ex track me down on Linked In a few months ago. Super weird. Go away, dude.

When DH and I became "facebook official", my ex tried to add him on facebook. Ewwwww. That just confirms that he is the creepiest of the creepers.

Lacquered, what kind of stuff did he send you? Or did you not read it?

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