After reading so many of OP's lukewarm, tepid, sometimes absurd responses on literally every. single. thread. in. existence. - I had no idea she'd flame out in such spectacular fashion. I almost applaud the balls it took to make this post. Like others, I too saw where this was going.
OP, if you're still reading this, please try to read these boards more thoughtfully. You're welcome here but your bad advice and stream-of-consciousness comments are not.
There's a lot of good advice here that can help you and other brides (myself included!) not be a jerk to their guests.
I still haven't figured out gif'ing so maybe a "The More You Know" from someone?
After reading so many of OP's lukewarm, tepid, sometimes absurd responses on literally every. single. thread. in. existence. - I had no idea she'd flame out in such spectacular fashion. I almost applaud the balls it took to make this post. Like others, I too saw where this was going.
OP, if you're still reading this, please try to read these boards more thoughtfully. You're welcome here but your bad advice and stream-of-consciousness comments are not.
There's a lot of good advice here that can help you and other brides (myself included!) not be a jerk to their guests.
I still haven't figured out gif'ing so maybe a "The More You Know" from someone?
@photokitty I FINALLY watched Pitch Perfect for the first time this weekend. When that part (your siggy) came up, I was so excited- like I've seen that gif 100 times!!! lol
TheArtemisMoon and finally..... after all those - I guess they were answers ??---
rudeness = advice on proper etiquette.
Who else is just utterly sick of obnoxious people on these boards? I mean really these boards are here for suggestions and help, correct? Not to bash each others' ideas and thoughts.
TheArtemisMoon and finally..... after all those - I guess they were answers ??---
rudeness = advice on proper etiquette.
Who else is just utterly sick of obnoxious people on these boards? I mean really these boards are here for suggestions and help, correct? Not to bash each others' ideas and thoughts.
And here is your answer to your question:
Mobkaz has let you know
"we don't care!"
Seriously, you should work on your coherent expression of thought.
@Kevandkath you said on Moms & Maids that you were done. It hardly seems like it.
Ideas are wonderful, but not everyone has good ideas. It can be hard to hear your ideas aren't good. But if you make a suggestion at work and the boss doesn't think its a good idea, do you stomp your feet there too? Just wondering.
TheArtemisMoon and finally..... after all those - I guess they were answers ??---
rudeness = advice on proper etiquette.
Who else is just utterly sick of obnoxious people on these boards? I mean really these boards are here for suggestions and help, correct? Not to bash each others' ideas and thoughts.
TheArtemisMoon and finally..... after all those - I guess they were answers ??---
rudeness = advice on proper etiquette.
Who else is just utterly sick of obnoxious people on these boards? I mean really these boards are here for suggestions and help, correct? Not to bash each others' ideas and thoughts.
TheArtemisMoon and finally..... after all those - I guess they were answers ??---
rudeness = advice on proper etiquette.
Who else is just utterly sick of obnoxious people on these boards? I mean really these boards are here for suggestions and help, correct? Not to bash each others' ideas and thoughts.
TheArtemisMoon and finally..... after all those - I guess they were answers ??---
rudeness = advice on proper etiquette.
Who else is just utterly sick of obnoxious people on these boards? I mean really these boards are here for suggestions and help, correct? Not to bash each others' ideas and thoughts.
And here is your answer to your question:
Mobkaz has let you know
"we don't care!"
Seriously, I was the one to comment on her post and all I said were the three ways why it is a VERY bad idea to exceed the capacity of your venue. One: Fire code- the venue could be fined for exceeding their fire code. It is dangerous to her guests to cram them in, if there were ever an emergency. Two: She may have to decide the day of her wedding who will be turned away and who won't. That would be really awkward for her, and no doubt, would greatly offend her guests. Three: This could be a breach of her contract. She could be left with no wedding venue if it is a breach of her contract. Four: (and I didn't even include this one) Guest comfort. I don't think it is nice to cram 215 people when a venue has a capacity of 200. Some guests may have to eat in the kitchen. They will be bumping elbows all night. A tent sleeps 8, but you won't fit 8 in a tent comfortably.
Sometimes people on these boards vehemently object because how else will someone understand how their guests would perceive it? "Um... do you think that's a good idea? I dunno? Maybe you shouldn't." No one would ever take that person seriously, and would think what they are doing isn't that bad, and their friends will understand. If everyone takes offense to a breach of etiquette, it lets people know how outraged their guest might be, even if they don't say so to their face.
These boards saved me from crippling entitlement when I was a bride. I am thankful. I still have family that loves me, and friends. If I continued the road I was on, I would have been married, but no one would have celebrated it, or talked to me after the wedding. That is one of the highlights of the boards.,, to know what people will say about you behind your back. If a bunch of people all though the same thing, I would reevaluate my behavior, not get mad that they had that reaction to me.
TheArtemisMoon and finally..... after all those - I guess they were answers ??---
rudeness = advice on proper etiquette.
Who else is just utterly sick of obnoxious people on these boards? I mean really these boards are here for suggestions and help, correct? Not to bash each others' ideas and thoughts.
And here is your answer to your question:
Mobkaz has let you know
"we don't care!"
What the fuck are you even saying here?
I am guessing that my sarcasm went way over her head.....beyond the rainbow over her head.
TheArtemisMoon and finally..... after all those - I guess they were answers ??---
rudeness = advice on proper etiquette.
Who else is just utterly sick of obnoxious people on these boards? I mean really these boards are here for suggestions and help, correct? Not to bash each others' ideas and thoughts.
And here is your answer to your question:
Mobkaz has let you know
"we don't care!"
What the fuck are you even saying here?
I am guessing that my sarcasm went way over her head.....beyond the rainbow over her head.
No, they literally just made no sense. Whatsoever.
TheArtemisMoon and finally..... after all those - I guess they were answers ??---
rudeness = advice on proper etiquette.
Who else is just utterly sick of obnoxious people on these boards? I mean really these boards are here for suggestions and help, correct? Not to bash each others' ideas and thoughts.
And here is your answer to your question:
Mobkaz has let you know
"we don't care!"
What the fuck are you even saying here?
I am guessing that my sarcasm went way over her head.....beyond the rainbow over her head.
If you want to learn more a GIF is a little moving picture. So like my signature is a gif, and what you posted is not moving so it's just a picture.
The internet is a wonderful land of joy that only gets better the more you learn to use it!!!
Haha, I did actually know that (as well as the fact that the person who invented the gif wishes it to be pronounced "jif") - what I should have said it that I just learned how to insert a picture w/o having to upload it. I was being lazy.
TheArtemisMoon and finally..... after all those - I guess they were answers ??---
rudeness = advice on proper etiquette.
Who else is just utterly sick of obnoxious people on these boards? I mean really these boards are here for suggestions and help, correct? Not to bash each others' ideas and thoughts.
And here is your answer to your question:
Mobkaz has let you know
"we don't care!"
What the fuck are you even saying here?
I am guessing that my sarcasm went way over her head.....beyond the rainbow over her head.
If you want to learn more a GIF is a little moving picture. So like my signature is a gif, and what you posted is not moving so it's just a picture.
The internet is a wonderful land of joy that only gets better the more you learn to use it!!!
Haha, I did actually know that (as well as the fact that the person who invented the gif wishes it to be pronounced "jif") - what I should have said it that I just learned how to insert a picture w/o having to upload it. I was being lazy.
TheArtemisMoon and finally..... after all those - I guess they were answers ??---
rudeness = advice on proper etiquette.
Who else is just utterly sick of obnoxious people on these boards? I mean really these boards are here for suggestions and help, correct? Not to bash each others' ideas and thoughts.
And here is your answer to your question:
Mobkaz has let you know
"we don't care!"
And with that, we've all apparently boarded the express train back to Trollville. All aboard...
TheArtemisMoon and finally..... after all those - I guess they were answers ??---
rudeness = advice on proper etiquette.
Who else is just utterly sick of obnoxious people on these boards? I mean really these boards are here for suggestions and help, correct? Not to bash each others' ideas and thoughts.
And here is your answer to your question:
Mobkaz has let you know
"we don't care!"
You should probably learn how to troll better. No one wants to read through a poorly constructed response.
Oh, and you can't blame your phone for the nonsensical shit you come up with. Honey, spell check is way beyond the problem.
Frankly, there are so many trolls on the board right now that it's hard not to step in them.
It's like a contest to see who has the worst spelling and grammar, the least logic, the worst idea...it's like a contest to see who can be the biggest asshole.
Why is that a title anybody would want?
If I genuinely believed people were this crass/crazy/oblivious/rude/stoopid, I would just resign from the human race. I'd join a different one. Meerkats look good. They look busy and focused, and like they're actually having a good time looking around for danger like secret agents. I'd join the meerkats.
Or those big snow monkeys in Japan that sit around in hot springs, hot tubbing all day.
Re: Obnoxious Brides
I got you.
@Kevandkath you said on Moms & Maids that you were done. It hardly seems like it.
Ideas are wonderful, but not everyone has good ideas. It can be hard to hear your ideas aren't good. But if you make a suggestion at work and the boss doesn't think its a good idea, do you stomp your feet there too? Just wondering.
I am guessing that my sarcasm went way over her head.....beyond the rainbow over her head.