I was recently asked about a guest list for my bridal shower and there's something I'm not sure about. What is the etiquette (if there is any) about inviting people to your shower who live very far away? I have a few friends who live in other parts of the country who I am inviting to the wedding; I know at least one of them is planning to attend. But I am not sure about inviting them to the shower. If they lived closer, I wouldn't hesitate, but I can't help thinking that it'll seem like I'm expecting way too much if I invite them to both the wedding and the shower. At the very least, I'm afraid it'll look gift-grabby, especially since I know they probably won't be able to attend. Any thoughts?