What wedding doesnt have this? UGH. I'll try to make this long story short. My parents were opposed to us having a big wedding b/c they hate my moms side of the family and orginally we were going to invite them. So fine. We changed the venue (that we had already put a down payment on...there goes that) to the FI mom's church. They still werent happy....there was minor drama over his side of the family, but nothing like my parents. So fine. We decided on a courthouse wedding. We decided on the parents coming and the witnesses. My parents are dead set on my uncle coming (dad's brother). FI's side of the family would be all mad because I invited an "extended family member" and no one on his extended side got to come. His side consists of his mom, dad, stepmom, sister, sister's hubby and her two kids, then his witness. My side would be my parents and my witness. I'm pretty sure my dad is going to stop talking to me if I tell him his brother cant come. Heck, they may not even come now. I dont know what to do anymore. Im tired of accommodating everyone. I just want to be happy and tell everyone to go away...but then im the type of person that feel super guilty for making someone mad and i turn it into it was my fault when it wasnt.
this turned out longer than expected. Thanks for advice and listening to me rant, rave, babble, and there's some crying in there too. *SIGH*