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  • lyndausvilyndausvi mod
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    XXXplicit said:
    And the mods should come out too - where are you guys?
    Knotholly and Knotriley are now the mods for this board.

    If you look at my post history you will see I've never participated in these types of threads.    Call me a prude, but these TMI threads have never been my thing.  Hetero or otherwise.   Again, if you look at my post history you will see that is the case. 

     I think you will find other mods do not participate in these threads either. Some do, some don't.  Us not being around isn't anything new if you look at post histories of other similar threads.

    I only popped in because there were a lot of reports of this thread and I was wondering what was going on.  








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    HeatherKat said:
    Please note, we at TK DO NOT believe that sex is a normal, healthy part of a relationship, and that as adults you are capable of using/reading adult language without clutching your pearls and/or fainting. We at TK also feel that having "TMI" in the topic is clearly NOT enough warning for the delicate, virginal brides who might accidentally stumble into this bastion of filth. Thank you.

    I think I'm stuck in TK's box. 

    If I want to talk about sex for procreation, is that allowed? Or should I flounce on over to TB to discuss baby-making sex? Because I have a lot of questions about which positions we should be using and what to do about post-coital leakage. DH read on the internet that having sex doggy-style is the best way to make a baby, but I think he just likes looking at my ass while he fucks me and knows I want a baby so badly I'll do anything it takes to make one.

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    So, who's doing the reporting? Care to step up? What really offends you so much? 
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    LadyMillil said:
    HeatherKat said:
    Please note, we at TK DO NOT believe that sex is a normal, healthy part of a relationship, and that as adults you are capable of using/reading adult language without clutching your pearls and/or fainting. We at TK also feel that having "TMI" in the topic is clearly NOT enough warning for the delicate, virginal brides who might accidentally stumble into this bastion of filth. Thank you.

    I think I'm stuck in TK's box. 

    If I want to talk about sex for procreation, is that allowed? Or should I flounce on over to TB to discuss baby-making sex? Because I have a lot of questions about which positions we should be using and what to do about post-coital leakage. DH read on the internet that having sex doggy-style is the best way to make a baby, but I think he just likes looking at my ass while he fucks me and knows I want a baby so badly I'll do anything it takes to make one.
    Being on top worked for me! Also, on the bottom, and probably doggy. I'm not sure, there was a lot of sex before my son was conceived.
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    lyndausvi said:
    XXXplicit said:
    And the mods should come out too - where are you guys?
    Knotholly and Knotriley are now the mods for this board.

    If you look at my post history you will see I've never participated in these types of threads.    Call me a prude, but these TMI threads have never been my thing.  Hetero or otherwise.   Again, if you look at my post history you will see that is the case. 

     I think you will find other mods do not participate in these threads either. Some do, some don't.  Us not being around isn't anything new if you look at post histories of other similar threads.

    I only popped in because there were a lot of reports of this thread and I was wondering what was going on.  


    That's the thing though. If you don't like it, you don't have to participate. The thread was clearly labeled TMI, and quite obviously going to be talking, at least to some extent, same sex relations.

    If you (general) KNOW that you don't like reading about that, why even come on this thread at all? Just scoot on by and talking about something more interesting to you. There ain't no law saying you must participate in every damn thread that comes across.

    I know you respond to this because the mods were called out. I don't think (though clearly I don't know) that XXX was saying that the mods must participate in our fun dirty talk, but rather that with the amount of editing being done behind the scenes, it's easy to think that a mod would be doing it, and was asking for clarification on why and what TOS were being violated. (again, I'm not XXX and don't intend to put words in her mouth, so fuck me if I'm wrong with this.)
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    HeatherKat said:
    lyndausvi said:
    XXXplicit said:
    And the mods should come out too - where are you guys?
    Knotholly and Knotriley are now the mods for this board.

    If you look at my post history you will see I've never participated in these types of threads.    Call me a prude, but these TMI threads have never been my thing.  Hetero or otherwise.   Again, if you look at my post history you will see that is the case. 

     I think you will find other mods do not participate in these threads either. Some do, some don't.  Us not being around isn't anything new if you look at post histories of other similar threads.

    I only popped in because there were a lot of reports of this thread and I was wondering what was going on.  


    That's the thing though. If you don't like it, you don't have to participate. The thread was clearly labeled TMI, and quite obviously going to be talking, at least to some extent, same sex relations.

    If you (general) KNOW that you don't like reading about that, why even come on this thread at all? Just scoot on by and talking about something more interesting to you. There ain't no law saying you must participate in every damn thread that comes across.

    I know you respond to this because the mods were called out. I don't think (though clearly I don't know) that XXX was saying that the mods must participate in our fun dirty talk, but rather that with the amount of editing being done behind the scenes, it's easy to think that a mod would be doing it, and was asking for clarification on why and what TOS were being violated. (again, I'm not XXX and don't intend to put words in her mouth, so fuck me if I'm wrong with this.)
    We are not the mods of this board.  Not our board, not our problem so-to-speak.  We have no need to comment since it's not our board to monitor.








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    hellosweetie1015 said:
    TrixieJess said:
    LadyMillil said:
    HeatherKat said:
    Please note, we at TK DO NOT believe that sex is a normal, healthy part of a relationship, and that as adults you are capable of using/reading adult language without clutching your pearls and/or fainting. We at TK also feel that having "TMI" in the topic is clearly NOT enough warning for the delicate, virginal brides who might accidentally stumble into this bastion of filth. Thank you.

    I think I'm stuck in TK's box. 

    If I want to talk about sex for procreation, is that allowed? Or should I flounce on over to TB to discuss baby-making sex? Because I have a lot of questions about which positions we should be using and what to do about post-coital leakage. DH read on the internet that having sex doggy-style is the best way to make a baby, but I think he just likes looking at my ass while he fucks me and knows I want a baby so badly I'll do anything it takes to make one.
    Being on top worked for me! Also, on the bottom, and probably doggy. I'm not sure, there was a lot of sex before my son was conceived.
    Wait... so... you have to have The Secks to have a little baby, which is the entire point of a woman's existence on this earth? Why would The Secks be a requirement? Does the stork like to watch? That's weeeeeeird maaaaaaan.
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    So, wait? Am I allowed to talk about my H licking my asshole? 

    For those that haven't tried it, get on it. 
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    TrixieJess said:
    hellosweetie1015 said:
    TrixieJess said:
    LadyMillil said:
    HeatherKat said:
    Please note, we at TK DO NOT believe that sex is a normal, healthy part of a relationship, and that as adults you are capable of using/reading adult language without clutching your pearls and/or fainting. We at TK also feel that having "TMI" in the topic is clearly NOT enough warning for the delicate, virginal brides who might accidentally stumble into this bastion of filth. Thank you.

    I think I'm stuck in TK's box. 

    If I want to talk about sex for procreation, is that allowed? Or should I flounce on over to TB to discuss baby-making sex? Because I have a lot of questions about which positions we should be using and what to do about post-coital leakage. DH read on the internet that having sex doggy-style is the best way to make a baby, but I think he just likes looking at my ass while he fucks me and knows I want a baby so badly I'll do anything it takes to make one.
    Being on top worked for me! Also, on the bottom, and probably doggy. I'm not sure, there was a lot of sex before my son was conceived.
    Wait... so... you have to have The Secks to have a little baby, which is the entire point of a woman's existence on this earth? Why would The Secks be a requirement? Does the stork like to watch? That's weeeeeeird maaaaaaan.
    We were just secking for fun...the bebe came as an oopsie!

    and that is clearly your punishment for secking for fun.
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    redoryx said:
    TrixieJess said:
    hellosweetie1015 said:
    TrixieJess said:
    LadyMillil said:
    HeatherKat said:
    Please note, we at TK DO NOT believe that sex is a normal, healthy part of a relationship, and that as adults you are capable of using/reading adult language without clutching your pearls and/or fainting. We at TK also feel that having "TMI" in the topic is clearly NOT enough warning for the delicate, virginal brides who might accidentally stumble into this bastion of filth. Thank you.

    I think I'm stuck in TK's box. 

    If I want to talk about sex for procreation, is that allowed? Or should I flounce on over to TB to discuss baby-making sex? Because I have a lot of questions about which positions we should be using and what to do about post-coital leakage. DH read on the internet that having sex doggy-style is the best way to make a baby, but I think he just likes looking at my ass while he fucks me and knows I want a baby so badly I'll do anything it takes to make one.
    Being on top worked for me! Also, on the bottom, and probably doggy. I'm not sure, there was a lot of sex before my son was conceived.
    Wait... so... you have to have The Secks to have a little baby, which is the entire point of a woman's existence on this earth? Why would The Secks be a requirement? Does the stork like to watch? That's weeeeeeird maaaaaaan.
    We were just secking for fun...the bebe came as an oopsie!

    and that is clearly your punishment for secking for fun.
    Clearly...This is why I should switch teams and only fuck women...less chance of bebe. (not no chance, see @Vulgargirl knocking up her wife).
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    TrixieJess said:


    redoryx said:


    TrixieJess said:


    hellosweetie1015 said:


    TrixieJess said:


    LadyMillil said:


    HeatherKat said:

    Please note, we at TK DO NOT believe that sex is a normal, healthy part of a relationship, and that as adults you are capable of using/reading adult language without clutching your pearls and/or fainting. We at TK also feel that having "TMI" in the topic is clearly NOT enough warning for the delicate, virginal brides who might accidentally stumble into this bastion of filth.

    Thank you.

    I think I'm stuck in TK's box. 

    If I want to talk about sex for procreation, is that allowed? Or should I flounce on over to TB to discuss baby-making sex? Because I have a lot of questions about which positions we should be using and what to do about post-coital leakage. DH read on the internet that having sex doggy-style is the best way to make a baby, but I think he just likes looking at my ass while he fucks me and knows I want a baby so badly I'll do anything it takes to make one.

    Being on top worked for me! Also, on the bottom, and probably doggy. I'm not sure, there was a lot of sex before my son was conceived.



    Wait... so... you have to have The Secks to have a little baby, which is the entire point of a woman's existence on this earth?     Why would The Secks be a requirement? Does the stork like to watch? That's weeeeeeird maaaaaaan.

    We were just secking for fun...the bebe came as an oopsie!



    and that is clearly your punishment for secking for fun.



    Clearly...This is why I should switch teams and only fuck women...less chance of bebe. (not no chance, see @Vulgargirl knocking up her wife).

    Well, at least that wasn't UNPLANNED.
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    yogapants said:
    I once tried to rescue a feral pussy who had a rectal prolapse, which is just what it sounds like - this little puss's butthole was turned inside out, guts coming all out the butt. Trapped her and took her to an emergency vet for surgery, which cost me $1200 and is the reason I have a CareCredit card (paid off, thankfully). She made it through the surgery but died in recovery. It was traumatic for me, I was hysterical when they told me. That little puss was just 5 weeks old and all she knew her whole life was pain. I never even got to pet my little feral pussy. (this story is 100% true)
    This is WAY more TMI to me than any amount of sex talk.
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    I am going to have nightmares about that rectal prolapse post *shivers*

    In all seriousness, I'd be hella salty if a bunch of mods started coming in and telling everyone why a certain thread was edited out or whatever, but KH pretty much already handled it anyway so there's not really much left for us mods to do or say, so. Like Lynda said, this isn't our board and so coming in here to discuss with you all further is kind of.. A waste of time for all of us. 

    I will say I giggled profusely when someone used the word "tips", though. 


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    hellohkb said:
    I am going to have nightmares about that rectal prolapse post *shivers*

    In all seriousness, I'd be hella salty if a bunch of mods started coming in and telling everyone why a certain thread was edited out or whatever, but KH pretty much already handled it anyway so there's not really much left for us mods to do or say, so. Like Lynda said, this isn't our board and so coming in here to discuss with you all further is kind of.. A waste of time for all of us. 

    I will say I giggled profusely when someone used the word "tips", though. 
    But she did not handle it. No one has handled it. There's no way that you can say "graphic language" in here is any more graphic than the TMI BC thread JC started that went on for ten pages. Nothing in here is that much more graphic than the squirting thread. I don't see the difference. And, frankly, I don't understand why you'd be salty if the people modding the board came and EXPLAINED why they'd modded the board, instead of this bullshit:
    KnotHolly said:
    Hi all,


    We have allowed TMI posts in the past, but none of those posts have ever used graphic language to this extent. The original post on this thread was found to be a violation of the TOS as it used this graphic language gratuitously, which is also why other posts on this thread have been flagged and removed. We've received multiple reports from users about this discussion. 


    Please note that if these kinds of posts continue on this thread, it will be closed. Please also note that creating other threads in direct response to this one will be grounds for warning, and will also be removed.


    Thank you. 
    What the fuck? That's not an explanation. "Multiple reports" and not explaining what, about Vulgar's original post nor any of the other original posts, was so gratuitously graphic, when we have posts like this? 

    Also - goddamn, if gratuitous language is a problem, ban bad language. ALL bad language is gratuitous. Everyone is capable of expressing themselves without "fuck" and "shit" and "hell" and "goddamn". So just ban it. Go ahead and sterilize the whole board.
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    You asked for a mods input and two of us gave it to you. We're going by what we know. As Lynda and myself have already stated, we can't speak for other mods or their boards. 


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    hellohkb said:
    I am going to have nightmares about that rectal prolapse post *shivers*

    In all seriousness, I'd be hella salty if a bunch of mods started coming in and telling everyone why a certain thread was edited out or whatever, but KH pretty much already handled it anyway so there's not really much left for us mods to do or say, so. Like Lynda said, this isn't our board and so coming in here to discuss with you all further is kind of.. A waste of time for all of us. 

    I will say I giggled profusely when someone used the word "tips", though. 
    Because transparency is bad? I seriously don't get it. I've been fucking raunchy in here. None of my posts have been edited. I haven't been warned. WHY can I talk about rimming, and eating pussy and having a girl eat my pussy, but when @Vulgargirl or @yogapants do it, they get warned and edited? How are we supposed to know what is appropriate under the vague as fuck TOS when they are applied so goddamn willy-nilly? (Can I say willy? Or is that vulgar?)
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    HeatherKat said:
    hellohkb said:
    I am going to have nightmares about that rectal prolapse post *shivers*

    In all seriousness, I'd be hella salty if a bunch of mods started coming in and telling everyone why a certain thread was edited out or whatever, but KH pretty much already handled it anyway so there's not really much left for us mods to do or say, so. Like Lynda said, this isn't our board and so coming in here to discuss with you all further is kind of.. A waste of time for all of us. 

    I will say I giggled profusely when someone used the word "tips", though. 
    Because transparency is bad? I seriously don't get it. I've been fucking raunchy in here. None of my posts have been edited. I haven't been warned. WHY can I talk about rimming, and eating pussy and having a girl eat my pussy, but when @Vulgargirl or @yogapants do it, they get warned and edited? How are we supposed to know what is appropriate under the vague as fuck TOS when they are applied so goddamn willy-nilly? (Can I say willy? Or is that vulgar?)
    Again, I don't know because I'm not the mod of this board and I didn't edit our any of the posts. 


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    hellohkb said:
    HeatherKat said:
    hellohkb said:
    I am going to have nightmares about that rectal prolapse post *shivers*

    In all seriousness, I'd be hella salty if a bunch of mods started coming in and telling everyone why a certain thread was edited out or whatever, but KH pretty much already handled it anyway so there's not really much left for us mods to do or say, so. Like Lynda said, this isn't our board and so coming in here to discuss with you all further is kind of.. A waste of time for all of us. 

    I will say I giggled profusely when someone used the word "tips", though. 
    Because transparency is bad? I seriously don't get it. I've been fucking raunchy in here. None of my posts have been edited. I haven't been warned. WHY can I talk about rimming, and eating pussy and having a girl eat my pussy, but when @Vulgargirl or @yogapants do it, they get warned and edited? How are we supposed to know what is appropriate under the vague as fuck TOS when they are applied so goddamn willy-nilly? (Can I say willy? Or is that vulgar?)
    Again, I don't know because I'm not the mod of this board and I didn't edit our any of the posts. 
    Then maybe the people who ARE the mods of the board should chime the fuck in with something other than corporate double talk.

    And I'm still curious why you would be salty if we knew why posts were edited, seeing as the TOS is so randomly applied (to people TPTB don't like, mostly).
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    I'd be salty because I would want to handle it first. They're free to chime in if they want to, but I'd want to be the one to primarily handle it and "take the heat". 


    thespeshulestsnowflake said:
    UO, but calling out the mods here is not really fair. As they have said, the Chit Chat board is now moderated by admins not moderators.

    I am only posting on this thread BECAUSE mods were called out. But honestly, there's not much I can say or do here *shrug*


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    I jarontee the reason the KGs are not explaining exactly what is wrong is because they do not want to deal with people telling them why their reasoning is flawed. 

    Once they say "well, x,y, and z are the reasons," it leaves us with the ability to question their reasoning.

    FTR I am not saying this is acceptable OR okay behavior. I just think that might be why they keep it vague.
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    thespeshulestsnowflake said:
    UO, but calling out the mods here is not really fair. As they have said, the Chit Chat board is now moderated by admins not moderators.
    I don't expect mods to know anything about this particular thread's warnings/violations. I do find it odd that they seem to wholesale avoid any particularly busy thread that calls out TK for any reason. I don't think theyhave to agree with me/others that TK and the admins are acting wack as all hell, but it seems unlikely that every single one of them has steered clear of here until they were mentioned. Usually a hoppin' thread has at least a little bid of mod participation, but on this one we don't hear a peep one way OR the other? It smells a little fishy, as if they've been told they can't express any opinions about The Management whatsoever.
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    All I know is all this pussy eating talk had made me want another threesome ASAP. @VulgarGirl if I can find a way to make it to AZ can I join you and the wifey?
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    KatieinBkln said:
    thespeshulestsnowflake said:
    UO, but calling out the mods here is not really fair. As they have said, the Chit Chat board is now moderated by admins not moderators.
    I don't expect mods to know anything about this particular thread's warnings/violations. I do find it odd that they seem to wholesale avoid any particularly busy thread that calls out TK for any reason. I don't think theyhave to agree with me/others that TK and the admins are acting wack as all hell, but it seems unlikely that every single one of them has steered clear of here until they were mentioned. Usually a hoppin' thread has at least a little bid of mod participation, but on this one we don't hear a peep one way OR the other? It smells a little fishy, as if they've been told they can't express any opinions about The Management whatsoever.
    I read the thread this morning and it had about 10 replies. I couldn't contribute anything so I didn't post on it. It has only become a hot thread when warnings were issued and that's why some of us have read since posts were being reported.

    I'm not sure about the other mods but I have never been told not to express opinions, about the management or otherwise. In fact, the KGs specifically told us it is important to participate in threads after the last fiasco so we don't come across like we're ganging up on anyone or forming "sides", because that's not what I, and I can imagine, or anyone else wants to happen.

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    XXXplicit said:
    I called the mods because just once it would be nice if one of them said 'wait, this IS vague, and I don't know how to enforce it across the other boards. What is going on?" or "You're right, this is odd" - but of course, everyone who is now a mod has the same hive mind as the KG. I understand I asked too much. It won't happen again.

    As for the multiple reports, so what? The TOS clearly say that if you add a TMI warning, graphic sexual reference is okay. Those people came into this thread with the TMI warning, ignored it, and then got their panties in a twist. Too bad for them. I don't care if a thousand people report it, nothing wrong happened here.
    If I was running an erotic art gallery, and my door said "Caution - adult content - 18 and older only" and some bus full of church ladies came in and complained about the content, it doesn't matter if there was one of them or fifty of them. They're the clenched morons who came into a place for safe and consensual adult content. I'd hand them an egg and tell them all go have fun sucking it somewhere else.
    Furthermore, did it even occur to you KGs that someone is reporting this because they're homophobic? And you're just happily going along with their systematic LGBTQ erasing?

    God Damn.
    To the first paragraph, I get what you are saying. But at the same time, most other boards do not get the same amount of traffic or crazy threads as Chit Chat. This might be why the admins took it over. It would be nice to actually know what we can say without getting a warning first, but they seem to keep changing their minds about it.

    For the rest, I completely agree with you.
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