Okay so I am not sure if this is something we can do or not. I don't want to offend any of our guest. SO My fiance and I in order to save money have decided to forgo a reception all together and just have a wedding (45 guests) at a small chapel in our area. We were thinking about having the bridal party and parents come back to our apartment for cake after but that is it. Is it okay to have just those people come over after or would that be rude to our other guests?