So I've been MIA for a little bit, but I have a perfectly good explanation... get your popcorn ready.
So the day before Christmas my MOH calls just to talk. She asked how the planning was gong. I told her that I picked up my dress and reserved my cake.
Back Story: My venue is giving me a complementary cake from their bakery... this bakery just so happens to be the same bakery she used for her wedding.
Anywho she gets all upset saying I told your a** not to get my cake, out of all the bakeries in the world you choose mine? Well you can get that chocolate B.S. but not the flavor I got. And if you end up picking my cake Im going to have a horrible evening.
I tried to explain to her that I didn't know that my venue's bakery was the same one she used, but she didn't want to hear it. Im so upset. Like does she expect me to change my cake, (free cake at that) just to save her feelings on MY day? I don't think so. Why cant she just be happy for me? If she's going to let a cake come before her happiness for me, then maybe she's not my real friend anyway.
So the argument was so bad that I stressed and cried myself into a miscarriage. She doesn't know this, and I don't think I'm going to tell her. I feel like she used me, I was there for her on her day. she hasn't been there for me at all. I really feel like she broke my heart, I loved her like a sister, she was my best friend. Now I'm contemplating inviting her at all. But this day (one year away 2morrow YAY!!) is about me and my man. If people can't understand that and leave their egos at the door, then they don't need to show up. Wow, she was the last person I expected this from.