Please bear with me as this post may be rather long and it is a problem that is stressing me immensely.
I have a bridesmaid that I have known for the past eleven years and I immediately asked her to be part of my wedding after my fiance` proposed this past December. Her personality is both parts bossy and flirty, which I've come to accept as part of her. My fiance` and I invited her over to our small super bowl party this past February. Things were going well until I went to get pizza and when I returned to the room, she was trying to tickle him and was being extremely touchy-feely while my fiance` looked uncomfortable to no end. I was instantly upset and told her of my concern. She claimed that she was just being playful and I forgave her, seeing as we had been friends for so long.
Flash forward to last month, my friend was over and we were all swimming. My fiance` started feeling pretty bad afterwards and went into our room to lay down and rest after I told him that my friend and I were just going to catch up and watch movies in our living room. As we were making our way to the living room and talking, my friend instead goes into our bedroom and crawls into bed with my fiance`, asking what movie we were going to watch. The look on both of our faces were probably priceless.
My question is this: How do I tell her she is no longer a bridesmaid? I know it is probably simpler than I'm making it out to be, but even though she has been ridiculous I'm not the kind of person who likes to step on people's toes.