After trolling through a number of posts I have yet to find anyone that is in the same predicament that I am in. My FH and I have been looking at all different ways to cut costs for our wedding and just today I thought about giving him my deceased father's gold wedding band. A little background: My father died tragically almost 15 years ago when I was a young teenager. He was a man that certainly had a hard life and had more than his share of demons, but he was a man that loved his wife and child dearly. I don't know if offering My FH the ring would be inappropriate or just wrong for the potential bad juju that the ring may have (yes, I have probably watched a few too many syfy flicks!) Have any of you been in this situation or know of someone else's situation? Thanks!