Thursday Things

lavenderfields13 · October 2015

@speakeasy14 I actually got H a GC to go skydiving a few years ago for his birthday. I guess he wasn't that serious about going because we didn't go and he never mentioned it again. Looks like I'm not the only nervous one haha

KeptInStitches · October 2015

@swazzle, the turkey taco salad looks awesome!

@jenjen047, I'm hopping on the bandwagon of everyone who's going to clean out the closet this weekend.

@lavenderfields13, I hope you find something in your price range soon!

@peaseblossom55, what a thoughtful gift!

@minskat30, woo! Glad your little black dress fits!

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Blech. So I had hoped rest would do me good and it doesn't seem to be helping. I may end up taking half a day off. It's not really like a cold or a migraine, it's more like it can't decide what it is and medication isn't helping.

Tonight is for football. We'll see what else, if anything, I get done.

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.....you like about yourself (physically, personality-wise, etc)? I'm really motivated and don't let setbacks get me down.

.....could use a little work? I should put more effort into consistently working out.

.....you've always wanted to do but were too afraid or just unable to do it? Travel and visit my relatives/friends who live further away. There's always been a "better" way the money should be spent.

.....you wish you had more time for? I probably have adequate time to clean, but I don't prioritize it enough, so can it be cleaning?

.....is a pet peeve of yours? The sound of chewing. Or should that be people who chew loudly?

.....you would do if you won $1,000,000? Pay off the mortgage, pay off H's student loans, go to Cat Island, Japan, and snuggle the kitties, and invest the remainder.

.....you love to wear? Skirts to work. It's been a luxury for me - lab meant long pants and closed-toed shoes.

.....you want to eat right now? Soup. Something hot and with a lot of flavor.

.....you love about NEY? The community.

.....bugs you about NEY? This question. More accurately, the answers to this question because I find myself reading everyone else's answers going, "Do I do that? Am I like that? Oh I'd better not do that. Am I the person they're referring to doing that?" I'm neurotic that way.

labro · October 2015

buddysmom80 said:

Swazzle said:

I STILL have not organized my clothes. I want to tackle everything with the mentality that I'm getting rid of anything that I don't feel good in because if I don't feel good in it then I won't want to wear it so what's the point of letting it take up precious closet space? I just have to do it. Maybe this weekend.

I think we need to motivate each other this weekend to get this done! I have clothes with tags on them that I haven't work and bought 3 years ago, so yeah....

Oh man, I need to hop on this train! I have so many things I never wear. Although I'm proud of myself today! I pulled out a top that I haven't worn in probably 2 years.

@Swazzle I love fra diavalo sauce!! I made a similar recipe once with shrimp AND scallop fra diavalo once and it was so delicious!

@buddysmom80 I hope you like HC! I never had problems with BA but I really enjoyed my one week of HC. They really seem focused on healthy recipes too which is is a big plus to me!

@cu97tiger Plus 1 to being with you on shoe organization! I am horrible about it. I really want to get more of those shoe organizers but I don't know if my closet has room...Right now most of my shoes are in baskets, or in a big pile in a corner (winter boots). Ugh.

@TwoDimes i2i Regarding what you said about mass responses. I really appreciate the people who do it but then I feel super guilty because I know I never respond to everyone. And honestly, I usually don't because I have nothing else to add that someone else has said.

@peaseblossom55 I am so glad you love your necklace! I think of you and Anneliese every single day!

Work is crazy busy today, but I'm leaving early to go help out @southernpeach89 since her H has to work tonight! I can't wait to get in some Callie and Maddux time!!! I'm really jealous of everyone talking about fall and winter clothes. It's still warm here, although cool in the mornings. I'm ready for some mild jacket and boot weather. Also, I miss my cardigans.

.....you like about yourself (physically, personality-wise, etc)? Physically - I think I'm pretty. I have a pretty face and a nice smile and I love my freckles. Personality wise I like that I'm outgoing and assertive.

.....could use a little work? My body. I'm overweight and I don't try hard enough to improve it.

.....you've always wanted to do but were too afraid or just unable to do it? I'd really like to go scuba diving somewhere, but getting certified is expensive and the equipment is $$$.

.....you wish you had more time for? Just normal life. I feel like I spend soooo much time in my car commuting, or being at work, and when I'm home I'm just too tired to do much sometimes. On the weekends I'm productive but those two days are never enough. I seriously contemplate being a SAHW sometimes, except I like spending money.

.....is a pet peeve of yours? Everything @Swazzle said. I fucking hate slow drivers in the left lane who won't move out of your way. I hate people who take FOREVER to order something at like Starbucks or a fast food place. You've had plenty of time to decide while waiting in line, just spit it out already! Deliberate misspellings of words, deliberate poor grammar. People who chew with their mouth open. People who send multiple text messages to get out a single thought. Basically I'm constantly irritated.

.....you would do if you won $1,000,000? Pay off my debt, my parents debt, and my ILs debt. Go on a freaking amazing vacation with the rest.

.....you love to wear? Jeans and elbow length sleeve comfy tops.

.....you want to eat right now? A cheddar bagel with some cream cheese would be perfect right now!

.....you love about NEY? Everything! I'm so glad I found this community however many years ago it was now. I never thought I would have made some of the amazing friendships I've made! Plus this places keeps me distracted on the boring days. Although like @speakeasy14 said - I wish we would bring back KUI. It was so much fun!

.....bugs you about NEY? I think this is just a repetition of what others have said - people who turn this into their blog and don't really interact with other people. People who only talk about themselves and never seem to have thoughts outside of their own personal sphere.

MissKittyDanger · October 2015

Swazzle said:

Speaking of shoes..............

I just caved and bought the boots that I've been lusting over for almost a year. I bought them in black last December and they're my favorite boots EVER. They're on sale today so I bit the bullet. I just hope I get home first the day they're delivered. I can see it now the first day I wear them: "Oh these old things? I've had them for ages, H!"

Ooerr! I am not usually a fan of flat boots but those are cute!!

buddysmom80 · October 2015

@labro we had a HC delivery last week and I LOVED it! H wants to start eating healthier too and I like that HC has those options for low-calorie or low-carb. Also they didn't screw up the order and our box wasn't damaged. BA uses Lasership to deliver our BA and it's very shady, one delivery guy tried to get into our house because he delivered us the wrong box (we were home, but still kind of scary).

cu97tiger · October 2015

@twodimes @labro - I don't ever try to respond to everyone, and I don't expect everyone to respond to me. I mean, it's nice and all, but hearing the exact same comment 'Sounds like a fun night!' doesn't really add a whole lot, so I feel like if I have something specific to reply, I'll do that, otherwise, I don't.

@speakeasy14 - I'm not scared of doing it at all, but since DH is super afraid of heights, it seems unfair to put myself in that position when, if the worst case scenario plays out, he and my family are the ones that would have to pick up the pieces. Not worth it in my eyes for a few minutes of adrenaline rush.

ETA: That reminded me - Tuesday we had a crew at our house working on our roof. DH had told me they showed him pictures of what they were going to do because he was too scared to get up on the ladder. So I specifically asked if I could go up there and take a look when they were done. It was scary on a shaky ladder, but I was proud of myself for getting up there and the crew said they had never seen a woman go up a 2.5+ story ladder before!

speakeasy14 · October 2015

@lavenderfields13 I gifted it to my bf. I knew if I got him a gift card he would never go, so I just brought him there and surprised him.

@buddysmom80 pack some away, but anything that you hate send to Thredup. That way you're not holding on to that "piece of shit" sweater haha.

@swazzle love those boots!

@peaseblossom55 All the vibes that everything works out!!

labro · October 2015

@minskat30 I forgot to congratulate you on the weight loss and fitting into your goal outfit!!!! You are amazing!!!!!

Peaseblossom55 · October 2015

@minskat30 congrats on the weight loss!

@labro thank you for sending the package & thinking of Anneliese. It makes me so happy that she is thought of.

Ahhhhh we should bring back KUI I miss that!!

minskat30 · October 2015

Got it to work...Little Black Dress. Its an old dress from White House Black Market. Its very, very tightly cinched around the waist and I couldn't zip it up around a month ago.

Oh and for good measure, the bastard that is Rajah stretch/sleeping this morning after waking me up all night.

MissKittyDanger · October 2015

sorry I've been lacking at responding to people's posts! I've been crazy busy in the mornings lately.

@minskat30 congrats on the fitting! your progress is inspiring

@swazzle I'm with @buddysmom80 cleaning counts as exercise!

@jenjen047 I am so with you on that! I always think "okay I need to do all of these things tonight!" and then at home I'm like "uhm .... no ..."

@lavenderfields13 I feel like maybe you've mentioned it before, but what's "Blogilates"?

@peaseblossom55 what a thoughtful thing from your friends! And so glad you found someone. I know from experience it's hard to find someone to talk about the hard stuff

@speakeasy14 small victories on no arguements! Hopefully it lasts

@cu97tiger I'm envious of your extra space {even though I don't need it lol} And you have reminded me I need to get a shoe organizer!

@labro yay for auntie time!

@KeptInStitches have you tried sinus meds? I hate when you start get sick and it can't decide what it wants to do

minskat30 · October 2015

cu97tiger said:

@minskat30 - That's a bummer about not being able to go to India but I do think you can find lots of things that will keep you occupied in Phoenix/Sedona. Definitely PM me (how are we not FB friends?).

We are still going to India @cu97tiger but H was supposed to plan a seperate little trip while we were there for my birthday (to a different city in India or country near India). Sadly, that is a no go right now so I'm thinking Sedona. Only reason we aren't FB friends is because I'm not on FB *hangs head in shame*. I really should join. I will PM you later this week/early next if we decide to do the Sedona side trip.

eilis1228 · October 2015

@Swazzle We got the turkey salad and the sirloin steak too! They look delicious! We'll probably make those this weekend.

@buddysmom80 Ugh what a pain in the ass. I'm sorry you've gotten such terrible service through BA.

Our delivery came Tuesday, and everything was great. I hate that they are so inconsistent.

How were the lamb sausages? I think I'll make those tonight. Also, I share your annoyance with people who knowingly come to work sick. A coworker came in Monday knowing she had bronchitis, and we basically shunned her out the door by noon. None of us have time to be sick! It's so rude when people do that.

@jenjen047 LOL motivated at work and then dead on my feet at home... story of my life! Definitely start organizing your closet and even your kitchen now... once you start getting wedding presents and shower presents, you'll need to find spots for all those wonderful new things.

@lavenderfields13 You know, we have that conversation about true costs of buying a house with people all the time. A lot of our friends and family keep telling us that their mortgage is less than our rent, and we're like, "Well, OK, true, but are you including your monthly utilities? Yard maintenance? Appliance maintenance? HOA fees? Taxes?" No, they never do. Owning a home can be really expensive and is a huge commitment, and I think it's great that you're doing all the research on how much it really costs. I'm sorry that it's more than you thought though. *hugs* I'm just glad that you guys get to stay in your current apartment! What a relief!

@TwoDimes lol JLo booty + Anna Kendrick made me think of Anna Kendrick lip syncing JLo's "Big Booty" song. I've now spent the last five minutes trying to find gifs of that to post, and it's pulled up some very inappropriate images on my work computer. LOL I'm going to go get fired now.

@speakeasy14 Ooooh KUI posts were so fun! I second that request!

@cu97tiger Gilmore Girls

I love that show so much. I cannot believe it first aired 15 years ago. It can't be true!

@peaseblossom55 Sending you all the love and vibes today

@minskat30 I bet you look more fabulous than Audrey in that LBD:

Way to go!!!!

@keptinstitches I hope you feel better soon!

@labro So jealous of your Callie, Maddux, and @southernpeach89 time!

Please take tons of pictures!

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This is me today:

My whole body is so sore from yesterday's workouts. I will definitely be waddling and T-Rexing it later, which means I'll have a hot date with my foam roller and an Epsom salt bath tonight.

Work is still crazy busy. I'm anticipating another late night.

No fun.

Last night FI and I made BA Pan-Roasted Salmon and Farro Salad. Holy noms, you guys! We were both a little wary at first because we don't love seafood, and he is not the best at eating vegetables, but we seriously loved that meal. Salmon will be part of our dinner rotation from now on. Yum!

We also got some wedding gifts in the mail yesterday, and one of them was the much-anticipated, NEY-adored Dutch oven. YAY! I looked up a ton of recipes last night, and omg I can't wait to use it! We are going to make ALL the stews this winter! And chili! And cornbread! Oh my!

Sorry for the P&R yesterday and the likely P&R today. The beginning of the month is normally really busy, but October is one of the busiest months of the year for us. Plus we've had people out sick, soooo it's just nuts around here. Only two more weeks until vacation! I'll be gone for 3 whole weeks, and I am SO READY.

Questions:

What's one thing that......... (or more, whatever)

.....you like about yourself (physically, personality-wise, etc)?

My smile (it's a big ol' cheerleader smile), my independence (for some reason I've been complimented a lot on this recently), and my responsibility.

.....could use a little work?

My perception of myself (definitely have body dysmorphia), my inability to delegate/let go of control, and need for perfection.

.....you've always wanted to do but were too afraid or just unable to do it?

Move to a new state or even country. FI and I talk about it wistfully but would never have the balls to follow through. All of our family and friends are here, and it's so hard to move somewhere where you know 0 people.

.....you wish you had more time for?

At moment, everything. I wish I had more hours in the day for socializing, cleaning, sleeping, hobbies, etc. I feel like I spend my days tackling ever-growing to-do lists.

.....is a pet peeve of yours?

Oh my god, people who don't read texts/listen to you. We have a few friends right now who are notorious for never reading texts about plans and then asking at the last minute what the plan is. They're reasoning is they're just too busy to read their messages, and it's so effing rude. We're busy too, dude!

.....you would do if you won $1,000,000?

Like everyone else has said, pay off student loans, buy a house (with cash! No mortgage!), buy a new car, and travel with any leftover money.

.....you love to wear?

Ummm... I don't really have a favorite piece of clothing right now. I'm over everything I own lol.

.....you want to eat right now?

ALL THE THINGS! Omg. I'm supposed to be on my period this week (I extended it an extra week so I won't be on it during the honeymoon), and my body is so confused and so hormonal. I would like all the wine, chocolate, and salty food in the world ASAP.

.....you love about NEY?

I love the friendships here. We all genuinely care about and support each other. It's such a positive environment, and I'm so thankful for all the wonderful advice, laughs, and random conversations we have here. You ladies are the best!

Oh, and thanks for all the awesome gifs! I think we could all communicate exclusively in gifs at this point.

.....bugs you about NEY?

The people who only talk about themselves and never really engage in conversation with others.

ETA: Re- Skydiving-- It's so much fun! Like @AlPacina said, when you go in tandem (which I think you have to do for your first dive anyway? Maybe?), the risk goes down exponentially. I went a few years ago with my ex, and it's one of the most fun experiences I've ever had. So amazing!

AlPacina · October 2015

To anyone who said they've been too scared to try skydiving (@buddysmom80, @lavenderfields13, @cu97tiger, @peaseblossom55): Just remember that the majority of accidents happen to solo jumpers, because they try and get fancy and sometimes things go wrong. Tandem is a whole different deal. The person you're attached to definitely doesn't want to die either. Being in the plane, and leaving the plane are terrifying, I'm not going to lie. But once you're actually falling it is an amazing experience. Calming, with the most incredible view! Just my two cents.

@swazzle - You should totally try acting! And those boots are amazing!....... Another note: I've had Bang Bang stuck in my head ever since yesterday when you brought up Hanna's dance routine.

@ lavenderfields13 - The secret to the Cheesecake Factory that I've found is to only eat appetizers and cheesecake. Their apps are THE BEST! Fried Mac n Cheese balls?!? Yummm!

@TwoDimes - Slow walkers make me FURIOUS!! I know it's not their fault I walk so damn fast, but fuuuuuuck. They'd be faster in those powered chairs. But those are also annoying because of the size and erratic driving. (LOVE YOU MORE!)

@Minskat30 - Your comment about being able to blend in as an FBI agent made me think of this that I saw the other day: (hopefully the size is okay)

Also HOLY FUCK THAT DRESS IS HAWT!

@MissKittyDanger - I have the same problem with the pictures! If everyone is loving something I'll log in on my phone real quick to see it, then get back on my work computer to respond, haha!

MissKittyDanger · October 2015

@AlPacina I hate tk on the phone, so I just wait until I get home to see the hilarity lol

AlPacina · October 2015

What's one thing that......... (or more, whatever)

.....you like about yourself (physically, personality-wise, etc)?

I love the natural waviness of my hair. Personality-wise, I love that I can strike up a conversation with just about anyone.

.....could use a little work?

Resting bitch face. I could put more effort into skin care. I need to take things less personally.

.....you've always wanted to do but were too afraid or just unable to do it?

Get a motorcycle, and my license to drive one. I can't seem to commit the time or money, even though I talk about it all the time. I think I'm scared that I'll either be terrible at it or I won't actually like it as much as I think I will.

.....you wish you had more time for?

Volunteering, I guess. Also crafting.

.....is a pet peeve of yours?

I'll steal a couple..... SLOW WALKING and being interrupted (especially if you don't even know what you're interrupting me to say yet, BOSS)

.....you would do if you won $1,000,000?

Is a million dollars enough to buy a panda?!?

.....you love to wear?

Soft and warm button up shirts. Slipper socks.

.....you want to eat right now?

Previously mentioned - Fried mac n cheese balls from CF. And randomly tacos.

.....you love about NEY?

I LOVE talking through gifs.

.....bugs you about NEY?

All of you are on the east coast! When my day is ramping down, and I'm super bored, everyone is already gone! If we were to do a KUI type meet-up, I'd either have to start drinking super early or I'd miss out on everything!

labro · October 2015

@minskat30

@lavenderfields13 To build on what @eilis1228 said - I think it's really great you're taking into account taxes and what not now. Although really, H and I have saved a ton more owning our home than we ever did renting. Your property taxes are worked into your monthly mortgage amount, as is your home-owners insurance - all of that goes into an escrow account. So it's a bit easier to calculate and plan for those expenses. Don't get yourself down! I think the key is to figure out what you need for a down payment, and then plan on having at least an additional $5k on hand for unexpected expenses after closing. Plus all those things you suddenly find out you have to have.

Confession - My food I was craving was a cheddar bagel and cream cheese. Well I did even better - I got a cheddar bagel with a little cream cheese, chives, red onion and fresh tomato on top. My tummy is so happy now!

AlPacina · October 2015

labro said:

Confession - My food I was craving was a cheddar bagel and cream cheese. Well I did even better - I got a cheddar bagel with a little cream cheese, chives, red onion and fresh tomato on top. My tummy is so happy now!

speakeasy14 · October 2015

I would just like to say, that in general, women are way to harsh on themselves and each other. And I'm really admiring everyone stating what they are proud of themselves for!

So for all of you:

minskat30 · October 2015

@labro -

Plus, also...your bagel sounds heavenly.

@eilis1228 - Dutch ovens are the BOMB. I can't wait to see all the good recipes that come out of yours.

@alpacina - Don't you know the drink clock? This is what it looks like...

You are welcome.

@cu97tiger - I do not get up on ladders....kudos to you, lady.

[Deleted User] · October 2015

@minskat30 - Holy bombshell Batman!!!! That dress is AMAZING on you! Congratulations!!

@swazzle - Those are potentially the most gorgeous boots I have ever seen. The color is just glorious. I'm also on board with you, @buddysmom80, and @labro with the closet clean out. Of course it may be counterproductive...Banana Republic Factory Store is having their holiday weekend "Entire Store 50% Off!" sale this weekend and I desperately need new work clothes...but I have to get rid of some stuff first.

@Speakeasy14 - I am in awe of you (and anybody else) for having the guts to jump out of a plane. I can hardly stand flying when I'm buckled in and not thinking about being miles above the earth. Love the pics!

@peaseblossom55 - Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. I'm glad you found a good therapist. Just having someone to talk to can be such a huge benefit.

I am so tired this morning. I stayed up watching Criminal Minds and the NL Wild Card game last night and I am seriously dragging. Must. Have. More. Coffee.

It's been a pretty slow week at work this week. One of my mini-mester classes is finishing up and so I get a bit of a break (except for grading) before the second one starts next week. I've mostly been doing a bit of research this week--reading some books I've needed to read for a while and thinking about the dissertation again. At some point, it's going to have to become a book, but I'm not sure I'm ready to touch it again yet.

I sort of feel lately like all I do is work. This evening I'm going to work late and then go to yoga and go home and go to bed early. I need to be up fairly early in the morning because I have an optometrist appointment, and they're going to dilate my eyes, and trying to get any reading or computer work done after that is going to be a no-go.

.....you like about yourself (physically, personality-wise, etc)? I like my eyes, and the things my body is becoming able to do because of yoga. (Like crow pose, or full wheel)

.....could use a little work? Being bipolar, I'm always working on controlling my emotions. Sometimes I still really fail, and it's a process to figure everything else out.

.....you've always wanted to do but were too afraid or just unable to do it? Sing with a jazz band.

.....you wish you had more time for? Talking to my family. I miss them now that I'm so far away.

.....is a pet peeve of yours? I honestly can't name one right off the top of my head. I find some things mildly annoying, but nothing serious springs to mind.

.....you would do if you won $1,000,000? Pay off the rest of my debt. Help my parents and siblings pay off their debt. Travel.

.....you love to wear? Sweatpants. The minute I get home all the real clothes come off and the comfy clothes come on. (Also boots. I love boots.)

.....you want to eat right now? Donuts. I drove past Krispy Kreme and the light was on and I didn't stop but I really wanted to and now I'm craving them.

.....you love about NEY? Y'all gave me a BSC reality check when I needed it most, and that really meant a lot. What I love the most is that I got the BSC reality check, but that didn't translate into me being not welcome.

.....bugs you about NEY? I'll second @cu97tiger. I want everybody to get along all the time!

*Edited because format and typing is hard.

beachyone15 · October 2015

@swazzle - Your meals sound so good!
@buddysmom80 - I feel you on not being that assertive at work. Keep the conflict away from me please!
@jenjen047 - Can't wait to see which invites are your favorite! We'll help narrow it down for you

@lavenderfields13 - That sucks about the price of the house. H and I did that too in the beginning but at least it helped narrow our focus!
@TwoDimes - Ahh! I'm so conflicted. Do I respond or not?! Honestly though, I get what you're saying.
@speakeasy14 - I agree about knotting at other times. It really gets hard sometimes during the workday.
@Peaseblossom55 - I hope you get good news and can start trying soon!
@minskat30 - That's so awesome! The hard work is really paying off.
@eilis1228 - That's exciting! Getting wedding gifts in the mail is the best!
@AlPacina - Umm, YES, those mac and cheese balls are heaven.

.....you like about yourself (physically, personality-wise, etc)? My ass. I have been told that I'm a great friend and listener.

.....could use a little work? I hate my stomach - need to put more effort into working out. And I'm always fighting with my hair.

.....you've always wanted to do but were too afraid or just unable to do it? Speak up more. I'm not as shy as I used to be, but I'm definitely still an introvert.

.....you wish you had more time for? I just wish I had more time in general. 8 hours at work everyday is too much IMO.

.....is a pet peeve of yours? People who are late and people who change plans on me at the last minute.

.....you would do if you won $1,000,000? Pay off everything and travel around the world. Possibly quit my job and get into event planning.

.....you love to wear? Pajamas and fuzzy socks.

.....you want to eat right now? That crock pot mac and cheese recipe that @labro posted the other day. I WILL make it soon.

.....you love about NEY? You girls have been so welcoming to me and that really means a lot. I really look forward to checking in here everyday! In fact, I don't think I ever told this story, but the whole reason I found my way over here was bc some of the posters on cc said that NEY is "crazy" and I thought hmm interesting. Turns out you all are NOT crazy and cc has gotten really weird/dumb, so this is my new home.

.....bugs you about NEY? The time it takes to respond to everyone. I enjoy it but sometimes it takes me an hour just to post!

Swazzle · October 2015

beachyone15 said:

@swazzle - Your meals sound so good!
@buddysmom80 - I feel you on not being that assertive at work. Keep the conflict away from me please!
@jenjen047 - Can't wait to see which invites are your favorite! We'll help narrow it down for you
@lavenderfields13 - That sucks about the price of the house. H and I did that too in the beginning but at least it helped narrow our focus!
@TwoDimes - Ahh! I'm so conflicted. Do I respond or not?! Honestly though, I get what you're saying.
@speakeasy14 - I agree about knotting at other times. It really gets hard sometimes during the workday.
@Peaseblossom55 - I hope you get good news and can start trying soon!
@minskat30 - That's so awesome! The hard work is really paying off.
@eilis1228 - That's exciting! Getting wedding gifts in the mail is the best!
@AlPacina - Umm, YES, those mac and cheese balls are heaven.

.....you like about yourself (physically, personality-wise, etc)? My ass. I have been told that I'm a great friend and listener.
.....could use a little work? I hate my stomach - need to put more effort into working out. And I'm always fighting with my hair.
.....you've always wanted to do but were too afraid or just unable to do it? Speak up more. I'm not as shy as I used to be, but I'm definitely still an introvert.
.....you wish you had more time for? I just wish I had more time in general. 8 hours at work everyday is too much IMO.
.....is a pet peeve of yours? People who are late and people who change plans on me at the last minute.
.....you would do if you won $1,000,000? Pay off everything and travel around the world. Possibly quit my job and get into event planning.
.....you love to wear? Pajamas and fuzzy socks.
.....you want to eat right now? That crock pot mac and cheese recipe that @labro posted the other day. I WILL make it soon.
.....you love about NEY? You girls have been so welcoming to me and that really means a lot. I really look forward to checking in here everyday! In fact, I don't think I ever told this story, but the whole reason I found my way over here was bc some of the posters on cc said that NEY is "crazy" and I thought hmm interesting. Turns out you all are NOT crazy and cc has gotten really weird/dumb, so this is my new home.
.....bugs you about NEY? The time it takes to respond to everyone. I enjoy it but sometimes it takes me an hour just to post!

eilis1228 · October 2015

@TwoDimes

minskat30 · October 2015

@beachyone15 - To that CC'er I say...

It's all good though, I'm above it...

lavenderfields13 · October 2015

@Minskat30 You look amazing

@MsKittyDanger Blogilates was created by fitness instructor Cassey Ho - it's a lot of pilates based workouts on Youtube. She does daily playlists so you can just click on a playlist and watch a few specific videos to get a workout in for the day.

@speakeasy14 I definitely don't have the balls to just surprise him by bringing him to the sky diving place. I was almost relieved that he didn't seem interested anymore lol. I know I'd have a panic attack!

@eilis1228 Yeah our total payment with a house will definitely be more than our rent and some people do prefer the convenience of renting but we are so desperate to have our own home! @labro My goal is to have at least 5K left in the bank after purchasing the home. We plan on only putting 3.5% down and I have no idea how much closing costs will be but it seems like they can be really expensive. Although a lot of people have told me that the seller will pay for or split closing costs with the buyer in many instances. But I'm trying to factor in at least $4k for them anyways. I found a good mortgage calculator so I can plug in any home we're looking at to get a good estimate of what our monthly payment would actually be. It always estimates that PMI is 1.03% though and I read that it ranges depending on a few factors so I don't know how to accurately calculate that though. We definitely need to lower our expectations now but I'm trying to be positive and be really good about saving now because I absolutely want to be out of this apartment by next September!

@beachyone15 8 hour work days are definitely too long! I know many people work longer days than that on a regular basis, I don't know how you do it.

AlPacina · October 2015

beachyone15 said:

.....you love about NEY? You girls have been so welcoming to me and that really means a lot. I really look forward to checking in here everyday! In fact, I don't think I ever told this story, but the whole reason I found my way over here was bc some of the posters on cc said that NEY is "crazy" and I thought hmm interesting. Turns out you all are NOT crazy and cc has gotten really weird/dumb, so this is my new home.

Broadcasters = CC ........ Guy in back = NEY

beanbot2002 · October 2015

I rarely get the chance to come play anymore, so I'm one of the ones that doesn't get to be involved in many of the convos here, and may come off as a 'diary' person. Sometimes I feel super super out of the loop. I know, though, that my friends here don't judge me for it because they know my work situation. And they love me. So....with that said:

@peaseblossom55 Sending you so much love, and hopes that the visit with the RE goes well. D & I think of you quite often and keep you in our thoughts and prayers.

@miskat30 DAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAYUM Girl! Hot hot hot! Also, Raj is a snuggle muffin.

@swazzle Give me those boots! GIMME! I'm thinking of returning one of the black pairs I got this weekend for a pair of brown ones.

....you like about yourself (physically, personality-wise, etc)? I try and treat people with love and compassion. I always offer a chipper hello and a smile, even if they hate me, they're still going to get a smile.

.....could use a little work? Learning to say No with more conviction.

.....you've always wanted to do but were too afraid or just unable to do it? I'll be honest, if something scares me, I don't want to do it. Far too much anxiety.

.....you wish you had more time for? My kids

.....is a pet peeve of yours? Passive Aggressiveness.

.....you would do if you won $1,000,000? Pay off the house, D's student loans, the cars, etc etc and then purchase a home in a nicer and safer neighborhood. The rest would be split between college funds for the boys and an IRA.

.....you love to wear? Shirts with the side rouching thing...

.....you want to eat right now? I'm eating a salad, I WANT a cookie, but i have to fit in that damn dress and I ate too many cookies and now it's tight. Way to go, beanbot!

.....you love about NEY? That my best friends are here. It introduced me to the most amazing, loving, supportive, and hilarious women, who I can't imagine life without.

.....bugs you about NEY? The nice police thing that TK instituted made me hard roll my eyes. Yes, I will always smile and say hello as stated above, but please let me gif the fuck out of the fuckery. Thank you. Goodbye.

jenjen047 · October 2015

@cu97tiger - WTG donating blood! I feel like we've had this conversation before, but I'm really concerned about the blood supply since I feel like most regular donors are older. I don't really know anyone under age 50 that donates on a regular basis and it makes me sad.

@speakeasy14 - YES! Weekend knotting would be awesome. I actually just had this thought last night. Also glad dinner with your dad went well!

@peaseblossom55 - That necklace sounds beautiful! I also agree it's hard to keep up with the posts sometimes.

@minskat30 - WOO HOOOOOOOOOOOO you are smokin' in that dress! What an awesome feeling!

@keptinstitches - I'm the same way with all the answers to the question...I'm like OMG do I do that? I don't think I do that but maybe everyone else does?

Don't worry I think you are very good about replying to people!

@beachyone15 - I agree I get overwhelmed by how long it can take to post sometimes. I know if I don't get on the thread before 9:30am, it's just not gonna happen because I will feel too overwhelmed to join in later. I usually read most days even if I can't reply.

Now, questions:

.....you like about yourself (physically, personality-wise, etc)?

I like my eyes and my butt. I think I give good advice and am a thoughtful friend.

.....could use a little work?

Being less irritated by things that don't impact my life

.....you've always wanted to do but were too afraid or just unable to do it?
I want to say something cool like skydiving but the truth is I've always wanted to be a realtor, but I'm scared to give up a stable salary for a commission job. I'm still debating making the change in the next year or 2.

.....you wish you had more time for?

Cleaning/organizing my house and life

.....is a pet peeve of yours?
I'm with @swazzle - people who don't let me off the train before getting on. Also people shoving to get off the train at a stop where 90% of people are getting off too. People not sitting in open seats on a crowded train......basically anything with the train.

.....you would do if you won $1,000,000?

Buy a house, invest/save, and put a little aside for travel.

.....you love to wear?

@buddysmom80 nailed it with YOGA PANTSSSS!!!

.....you want to eat right now?

anything and everything: Chinese food, Olive Garden, a donut, meatballs, a muffin, Chipotle....etc. I thought we banned food talk this early in the morning?

.....you love about NEY?

The friendships I am building with you ladies! And being able to get advice on WR and life things from a bunch of people.

.....bugs you about NEY?

Agree with PP....some posters just don't interact. Also sometimes I feel like I'm behind because a lot of you seem to be such good friends outside of NEY. Though I did just become FB friends with some of you, which made me happy! I even told FI.

Question for the group:

Do most of you have computer/desk setups that are relatively private? Mine isn't and I feel like I get caught on NEY multiple times a day. Whoops.

ETA: @beanbot2002 - I don't think you of as a diary poster. There is a difference between people who don't participate every day and people who participate every day but don't interact.

Swazzle · October 2015

@jenjen047 - My desk is completely open and anyone can see my screens. My job is very different from most people's, though, in that I don't have things that I can just be working on throughout the day. I only have work to do when there are trades. Sometimes there are 100 trades a day and sometimes there are 20 a day. So being on any site that's not blocked during the day is NBD. I only get nervous when the thread title is something weird and I don't want my CWs seeing that lol

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