Maybe I'm just overthinking this, help me out. I'm starting to put together my guest list for my baby shower that my mom will be hosting for me. I've decided I want to have a couple shower as I want H to be involved and most of our friends are couple friends. My mom was a little confused by this because she's used to female only showers of her generation. If I'm having a couple shower do I invite all guests with their S/O or is it okay to invite in circles. i.e. all our couple friends but just my aunts and female co-works as singles. Or is that rude? I'm guessing a lot of the older generation guys won't come anyway so should I just invite everyone as a couple and leave it up to them?