So here's the thing...
My SO and I have been dating for over 5 years but only engaged for a month or two, there's a couple in our social circle who've only been dating for less than three years but have been engaged for nearly two of those. Their wedding is coming up before the end of the year whereas ours isn't till next year.
When we first announced our engagement we invited this couple to a nearby winery to celebrate with us. We mentioned how much we loved the space and how we were considering having our wedding there, the owner overheard us and us being long time regulars he instantly pulled up a chair and started discussing options with us.
Skip ahead to last night when we went back to said winery - just my SO and I. The owner instantly flagged us down and said that the prices he gave us were special prices for us and he hadn't intended that knowledge going public but that he was ok this time since it was our friends....
Turns out they stole our spot for their rehearsal dinner!!! I'm so furious! According to the owner of the winery - the details for their rehearsal dinner are eerily similar to what we had discussed for our reception! What should I do? I want to confront her - what kind of person thinks that's ok to do?!?! That was our spot that they had never even heard of before we invited them! And it's only good enough for their rehearsal?!?! So now all of our group of friends will think I'm so lame and boring that I had to copycat her rehearsal for my wedding - even though she's the copycat?
I know I'm overreacting and we can both very happily use the same place. But it just doesn't seem fair to steal our spot without ever talking to me or telling me - I bet since I'm not actually in her wedding and thus not invited to the rehearsal she just assumes I'll never find out. But how low can you seriously get!? I honestly have no desire to see this b*tch again but he's pretty good friends with my SO and there's not much I can do about the matter.