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We will be doing an intimate wedding ceremony in Costa Rica (<10 guest)
Im starting to look into vows and I am getting so confused
I thought writing vows would be long the lines of
Officiant greets everyone
Bride : "Groom" I promise to X,X,X
Groom : "Bride" I promise to X,X,X
But watching a bazillion wedding videos it seems more like a speech/ declaration
"When we fist began our relationship I knew XXX
I knew there would be XXX what I didn't know was how quickly i would fall in love with you. You are my best friend and this is the best day of my life. It has been and always will be a privilege to be loved by you and I look forward to a lifetime of memories." (not putting thought into this just a guess)
SHould we both be making this type of spiel?