So fiance and myself live 1000+ miles away from his family, they keep saying we need to do the wedding down in Tennessee and Not in Massachusetts, I started planning on 12/20/14 two days after i was engaged. when we chose our wedding party everyone said they be here for the big day this august, 18 months to save there money and 18 months for us to plan it proper. well three days ago we get the bomb that none of them are coming, My Fiance is so crushed, and i feel like they are trying to make me feel guilty- My immediete family can't travel mom and dad are in there 70's, and to top that all off i have already invested money into dj, video,photo, cater venue- and they cancel 7 months before, but they say its not fair that we are going to continue without them---- what do i do? i cant just walk away from what we have planned the vision i have always wanted, if i go there my mom and dad cant... Life sometimes is not fair and im freaking out, 3 of his groomsment cancelled, and doing replacements is not easy. no one has money to travel, i offered all of them to stay at my house too to save more money
someone said i should go to Tennessee and do a fake wedding for them, I just dont know, i feel like i am out of options
i wish we all can do this together