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Knottie1439960789 · March 2016

levioosa said:

Knottie1439960789 said:

Because people are coming in and saying oh someone is doing this and that and they should understand what happened. I came here for advice and was attacked and blamed and attacked. I tried to then figure out how to delete the thread because it was becoming stupid and then I saw continued attacks against me so I was defending myself. Again, this post needs to be removed.

Quoting....still no attacks towards you....

and?

crowsgirl15 · March 2016

levioosa said:

Knottie1439960789 said:

Because people are coming in and saying oh someone is doing this and that and they should understand what happened. I came here for advice and was attacked and blamed and attacked. I tried to then figure out how to delete the thread because it was becoming stupid and then I saw continued attacks against me so I was defending myself. Again, this post needs to be removed.

Quoting....still no attacks towards you....

Knottie#s implied on my wall that they were all done in personal messages. Finding that hard to believe, but hard to disprove. Seems almost perfect.

ernursej · March 2016

@knottie1439960789 - the best way for this to stop is for you to stop responding and to move forward.

Now your started to change quotes ...

drunkenwitch · March 2016

Knottie1439960789 said:

Because people are coming in and saying oh someone is doing this and that and they should understand what happened. I came here for advice and was attacked and blamed and attacked. I tried to then figure out how to delete the thread because it was becoming stupid and then I saw continued attacks against me so I was defending myself. Again, this post needs to be removed.

levioosa · March 2016

flantastic said:

@KnotRiley, sorry to page you again, but if OP has indeed requested to be deleted, can we be sure it's actually a ban (if warranted)? I'd like others to see this as a "this shit doesn't fly here" rather than a flounce.

If it's not warranted I don't know what would be. I can't believe some of the things OP has said. It's definitely been one of the more colorful (if unoriginal) SS's we've had in awhile.

Knottie1439960789 · March 2016

Yes, I received multiple personal messages that were very mean and threatening. So can those who did that please stop and just go learn how to be nice people. This is a wedding board intended to plan your wedding and chat about things that happened and get advice. This isn't a board for fighting or bullying etc.

levioosa · March 2016

Knottie1439960789 said:

Yes, I received multiple personal messages that were very mean and threatening. So can those who did that please stop and just go learn how to be nice people. This is a wedding board intended to plan your wedding and chat about things that happened and get advice. This isn't a board for fighting or bullying etc.

If anyone sent personal threatening messages (besides you), I would be very surprised. I'd also guess that the IT team would look into that, and it would be very easy to disprove.

ernursej · March 2016

@crowsgirl15 - I could certainly see some of the vulgar comments. They were definitely on walls. There may have been other comments sent as private messages but certainly some wall defiling happened.

crowsgirl15 · March 2016

Knottie1439960789 said:

Yes, I received multiple personal messages that were very mean and threatening. So can those who did that please stop and just go learn how to be nice people. This is a wedding board intended to plan your wedding and chat about things that happened and get advice. This isn't a board for fighting or bullying etc.

I'll repeat what I said on my wall: If you received personal attacks in private messages, I encourage you to report them. Attacking back in a public forum is just going to get you banned along with them. You realize that, right?

Knottie1439960789 · March 2016

levioosa said:

Knottie1439960789 said:

Yes, I received multiple personal messages that were very mean and threatening. So can those who did that please stop and just go learn how to be nice people. This is a wedding board intended to plan your wedding and chat about things that happened and get advice. This isn't a board for fighting or bullying etc.

If anyone sent personal threatening messages (besides you), I would be very surprised. I'd also guess that the IT team would look into that, and it would be very easy to disprove.

Yes, I do want them to check into it and at the same time delete this entire stupid thread.

Knottie1439960789 · March 2016

crowsgirl15 said:

Knottie1439960789 said:

Yes, I received multiple personal messages that were very mean and threatening. So can those who did that please stop and just go learn how to be nice people. This is a wedding board intended to plan your wedding and chat about things that happened and get advice. This isn't a board for fighting or bullying etc.

I'll repeat what I said on my wall: If you received personal attacks in private messages, I encourage you to report them. Attacking back in a public forum is just going to get you banned along with them. You realize that, right?

Yes, I am aware and that is fine. However, why would I care to be a member of a site where the members are so aggressive and cruel?

crowsgirl15 · March 2016

ernursej said:

@crowsgirl15 - I could certainly see some of the vulgar comments. They were definitely on walls. There may have been other comments sent as private messages but certainly some wall defiling happened.

I believe what she was saying is that people on this thread sent HER attacking messages.

Just trying to follow the thread, as it were, lol. Not sure how any of it justifies the HORRIBLE things said on this thread and walls. One might even say it's a convenient excuse after the fact...you know...if I were another sort

levioosa · March 2016

Knottie1439960789 said:

levioosa said:

Knottie1439960789 said:

Yes, I received multiple personal messages that were very mean and threatening. So can those who did that please stop and just go learn how to be nice people. This is a wedding board intended to plan your wedding and chat about things that happened and get advice. This isn't a board for fighting or bullying etc.

If anyone sent personal threatening messages (besides you), I would be very surprised. I'd also guess that the IT team would look into that, and it would be very easy to disprove.

Yes, I do want them to check into it and at the same time delete this entire stupid thread.

We don't delete threads here, FYI. You're not the first person to try, and you won't be the last.

crowsgirl15 · March 2016

Knottie1439960789 said:

crowsgirl15 said:

Knottie1439960789 said:

Yes, I received multiple personal messages that were very mean and threatening. So can those who did that please stop and just go learn how to be nice people. This is a wedding board intended to plan your wedding and chat about things that happened and get advice. This isn't a board for fighting or bullying etc.

I'll repeat what I said on my wall: If you received personal attacks in private messages, I encourage you to report them. Attacking back in a public forum is just going to get you banned along with them. You realize that, right?

Yes, I am aware and that is fine. However, why would I care to be a member of a site where the members are so aggressive and cruel?

So...sign off? Is the only way you know how to stop interacting to berate folks and call them cruel names?

Knottie1439960789 · March 2016

Please just make your own thread and take these "people" with you.

levioosa · March 2016

crowsgirl15 said:

Knottie1439960789 said:

crowsgirl15 said:

Knottie1439960789 said:

Yes, I received multiple personal messages that were very mean and threatening. So can those who did that please stop and just go learn how to be nice people. This is a wedding board intended to plan your wedding and chat about things that happened and get advice. This isn't a board for fighting or bullying etc.

I'll repeat what I said on my wall: If you received personal attacks in private messages, I encourage you to report them. Attacking back in a public forum is just going to get you banned along with them. You realize that, right?

Yes, I am aware and that is fine. However, why would I care to be a member of a site where the members are so aggressive and cruel?

So...sign off? Is the only way you know how to stop interacting to berate folks and call them cruel names?

Good thing she's marketing and not PR.

ernursej · March 2016

If I didn't have braces, I might get some popcorn.

I much prefer the normal day to day questions and useful discussion that happens on The Knot (I'm really a boring person), but can't help myself tonight with the reality programming streaming live.

levioosa · March 2016

ernursej said:

If I didn't have braces, I might get some popcorn.
I much prefer the normal day to day questions and useful discussion that happens on The Knot (I'm really a boring person), but can't help myself tonight with the reality programming streaming live.

Oh man, I remember those days. Wax is a joke, too. How much longer do you have?

I also like when people respond graciously and take our advice, but this is providing a great way to avoid the papers I need to write.

Knottie1439960789 · March 2016

ok i'm deleting my account but when you all have questions or need help I hope you receive the same lovely responses and mean words I had received. Those who were cruel.. your sad people.

levioosa · March 2016

Knottie1439960789 said:

ok i'm deleting my account but when you all have questions or need help I hope you receive the same lovely responses and mean words I had received. Those who were cruel.. your sad people.

*you're

Knottie1439960789 · March 2016

Hopefully the site will see the pm's that were attacking me. I am sure you will find yourself deactivated .. best wishes.

ernursej · March 2016

@levioosa, I get them off last week of September ... just in time for the wedding! This is my second round so I really only have myself to blame. Apparently, a retainer should be worn FOREVER and not just for two years like I did. Oh well. Wax is my best friend. If I added a wick, I could make my own candle.

levioosa · March 2016

Knottie1439960789 said:

Hopefully the site will see the pm's that were attacking me. I am sure you will find yourself deactivated .. best wishes.

Ciao!

Knottie1439960789 · March 2016

Ok I just deleted my account.. but not sure if it is fully deleted?

levioosa · March 2016

Knottie1439960789 said:

Ok I just deleted my account.. but not sure if it is fully deleted?

Haha! That made me laugh out loud. Sweetie, if it was deleted, you wouldn't be able to post anymore. And you can't self-delete.

Knottie1439960789 · March 2016

Under account settings.. but it appears it takes a few days for it to deactivate.

Knottie1439960789 · March 2016

Looks like I'm here until my request goes through.

levioosa · March 2016

Knottie1439960789 said:

Looks like I'm here until my request goes through.

How lucky for us.

crowsgirl15 · March 2016

Knottie1439960789 said:

Looks like I'm here until my request goes through.

Do you know how to close a page? That will work just as well.

ernursej · March 2016

@Knottie1439960789 - If you don't want to continue to post, you don't have to. Easiest thing would be to log out and your account will eventually be deleted.

If you would like to stay (that might depend on mods and their take is on what happened), think about a 180. There have been other Knottie#s that have posted something and gotten responses that didn't match their expectations, but they learned, moved forward and have now become part of the community. I lurked for a LONG time before I got an idea of how things worked.

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