Not sure if this is the right place to put this, but you ladies will definitely have a lot of knowledge.
Our venue charges per person for our reception, plus an additional fee for the ceremony spot. They also charge a 20% "service charge" on the reception, then add the 7% tax. So, hypothetically, if the contract pp fee was $100, we're paying $128.40/pp + the ceremony fee (and tax on that).
Is this considered the tip, or should I budget a tip on top of that?
My venue is pretty inclusive (cake, flowers, food, alcohol, servers & some decor are included in the per person fee), so if I should budget a tip, how much should I tip? 20%, or x per person working that day, or something else? I know I want to go above and beyond for our coordinator because she's amazing, but is the rest of the staff taken care of with the service fee?
The wedding is a year away, so I have some time to plan, but I've been struggling with these numbers for a while. I have 20% budgeted, but my FI says that's too much, and our parents think some of that money should go toward our house fund.
Thoughts?
(edited for typos, though I'm sure there's more in here)
Re: Venue Service Charge
Taxes are not in the control of the venue. They are set by your state, county and/or city.
You should have a written estimate from your venue that gives you the grand total.
We did tip our coordinator because she was amazing and went above and beyond what we expected. We also extended the open bar an hour so we tipped the bartenders on top of that as well.
I'll see if I can get the coordinator to explain, but if not, I'll budget some kind of tip on top of the pre-fee cost per person. I have tried asking before via email, and she didn't respond (not sure if it got lost or what), so I'll have to try in person.
Mine has both gratuity and service charge listed. Two separate lines. However, they were STILL one of the cheapest options for full service and did let me know the total cost with all fees.
So for example the coordinator said "It's ____ per person and with taxes, gratuity and fees _____ per person". The total cost was never a secret for me, I just saw the fee's broken out after.
edit: words
They have a small section of their brochure that suggests tipping amounts that are around the industry average in New Jersey; for wait staff it suggested $20 each, and $20-$40 for bartenders.
Wanderlust543 said: Is this per hour or for the night?