From the beginning, my fiance and I have made it clear that we were having an adult only wedding. All of our guests were totally fine with that and even happy to have a night away. Here is where I hit a little dilemma. One of my bridesmaids had a son in January, so he is only a few months old. I had told her from the beginning also, that it was child free. Over the past couple of weeks some of my bridesmaids were asking if I've talked with her to find out what she was planning to do with him while she was in the wedding, since they thought she had mentioned bringing him. I did ask and she said, "He has to be there, he goes everywhere with me". It really doesn't matter to me at all but it is the principle of the matter and I don't want to come off as playing favorites when we've already said no kids. I understand that he doesn't need a seat or a plate, but I still feel that this will come off rude to some guests. At this point there's really nothing I can do, but I want to know if this has been an issue with any fellow Knotties, and if you were a parent and saw this at a wedding, how would you feel?