Let me preface this really fast with the fact that my parents are disabled, they've been that way my whole life, and though I can accept this to a point it's been no secret and even said outright to me that they use it as en excuse not to go places or do things when they just don't want to. So I'm not trying to be bratty, my feelings are just really hurt.
Two weeks ago my mom made the point to pick a convienet time to go to David's bridal with me, so I booked an appointment, for tomorrow. Our car broke down shortly after I booked and it turns out its a recall part so we don't even have to pay to get it replaced through the dealership, so that's all set for next week (thank goodness) but until then my only way to go to my dress appointment was with my mom and dad, so I thought no big deal, we'll just drive up together and meet my bridesmaid.
Last week my mom made a comment about how she basically didn't care if I didn't take her dress shopping if I didn't want her to be there. Even though before I was even engaged I said I wanted her and dad to be there. We were talking today and she said "So I talked to your dad, and we're not going to go tomorrow, he's not feeling up to it" and then she got all defense when I said I was disappointed. I've been asking her to go dress shopping for four months, So I was really happy that she was finally getting excited about our wedding and then this happens. I don't even care if we didn't go to David's bridal, but she won't even talk to me about wedding and she refuses to be in the car longer than an hour so I can't even get her to agree to go to the bridal boutique I want to go to thats two hours away.
I don't know what to do, I need to get my dress soon so I can get any of the alterations done. She doesn't seem to care now about going but I KNOW if I take anyone else she's going to hold it against me. There's just no winning.