My sister died 14 years ago when she was 6 years old. I would give anything to have her there for my wedding day, so I can't imagine not honoring her in some way. I was thinking about, toward the end of the reception, having a dance with my dad in my sisters place to a song I know he would have picked for her. I've read other posts about how to avoid sad moments at a wedding but I really want to honor my sister and my parents. My question is, would this memorial be too devastating for family? How would you react if you saw this at a wedding? Thank you all for any input.