Opinions please. My MOH is my sister and will not be attending my bachelorette party (she says due to time off and lack of funds, since she lives in another state). I kind of assumed this from the get-go. I never wanted to put the stress on anyone else, so I started planning it myself. I have the hotel booked with the deposit on my credit card, ordered the shirts, and have made all the plans so far... At what point and how do I ask for help? It kind of sucks having to plan my own to be honest. Every time I ask for opinions, the response is "whatever you want to do!". It's a few weeks away and there is not itinerary planned yet for the weekend, and I don't want to plan it... Do I ask my best friend for help? Do I ask all the girls for help? Thoughts??