I know they're deemed as tacky, lazy, and cheep. But in mine and my guys case it really seems necessary. We've been engaged a little over a year and we decided to put the wedding on the back burner for the time being so we could move first. We are now moving November 1st and made a split decision (last week!) to get married before we move so can be sure our families and closest friends can attend. We're just doing a quick Justice of the peace ceremony and having food at a local restaurant that does small parties. We're only going to have about 35-40 people. That's only 3 weeks left to plan this, get the dress, all that stuff, on top of moving a week later! Is a facebook invite in this situation still a bad idea?