Hello just want to see if I’m overacting or not. My
wedding was this past Saturday and we had hired a planner who was also
doing our day of coordination. We’ve had issues with this
planner/company through out the process but thought they would at least
pull it together on the day of considering they have done weddings at
our location before. Our ceremony was set for 5:45pm specifically to
account for sunset so the ceremony would not be in the dark (ceremony
was outside). They made it a point to have me move the ceremony up 15
min so that we would not lose light. Our ceremony was started 45 min
late and most of it was in the pitch dark. We made the best of it and
now it’s a funny story but we are still very upset with them for not
helping us stay with our timeline. I found out after that they had
another assistant with them and they both were re-arranging my flower
arrangements my sisters and I had set up!! I never asked them to do the
decor or flowers and everything was set up how I wanted it before they
even arrived. They also forgot to give me my bouquet to walk down the
aisle. Again I made my own bouquet and completely forgot about it since everything was so rushed.
We are having a call with them to discuss the issues because
apparently they have no idea why we are upset. Are we overreacting ?