Help! So, my maid of honor has been my best friend since high school. Recently, she lost her job, and took it really hard. I've been doing my best be supportive and understanding. My wedding is a month away, and now I've been going through a lot on top of, well, wedding planning (my mom is mentally ill, and it's just another layer of stress). I love my MOH dearly, by she's totally dissappeared- she hasn't planned anything she said she would, stopped answering phones calls or texts- and this is a time I really need her.
I don't want to come off as a bridezilla, because I know she's got a lot on her plate, too; but if she can't handle the responsibility, can I nicely ask another one of the girls to step up and help these next few weeks? My future sister in law has pretty much taken over all her responsibilities, since she didn't plan the shower or Bachelorette party like she said she would, and I feel like she deserves to be recognized for that.