my maid and cousin has crossed the line and I'm ready to give her the boot...she knows I do not like my future SIL and 5 months ago my cousin didn't like her either but she ran into her and out of nowhere my cousin calls me up to tell me how good she looks and how nice she is and gushing about her...I wanted to jump thru the phone! And the day before she was talking smack about my dress and makeup...I want to demote her and not talk to her anymore...Am I out of line? Bc I feel like that was a complete violation of trust and loyalty...she clearly did not have my back