So my FMIL has been pretty negative since we got engaged. It's extremely draining.
She's been negative about almost everything from guest list, to bridesmaid dress lengths, to decoration ideas. Her two main issues are:
- That we are inviting his dad's wife to the wedding (who she doesn't like but who has always been super support of our relationship)
- That my FSIL is not a bridesmaid. (She and I are fine overall.. but she's actually quite rude to me and likes to be the center of attention)
I've basically been given a choice of make the Sister a bridesmaid and the dad's wife can come. or don't make the sister a bridesmaid and the dad's wife can't come.
I don't really know what to do to try and keep my future mother in law happy. I feel like this is impossible and at this point have to then boot out one of my close girlfriends from the bridal party.
Can I just get some feedback?