So...I really need advice on my mom..we have always been very close.. best friend close..and I am the only child which probably makes a difference.. but lately I want nothing to do with her..
She is the MOB of course and I have included her in everything I can from this point.
My fiance and I got engaged in December and since Christmas... this whole wedding thing has been a complete nightmare for me.
It started with the bridal extravaganza... and me inviting the MOG. My mom got super upset and jealous that it wasn't OUR day as mother and daughter. Since then though.. we have booked a venue which is all included so it includes Dj, centerpieces, linens, plate ware, catering and bar. Which my mom and I looked at together and booked together. We have also picked my dress which I didn't even want to do yet but wasn't an option for me. I have forwarded her emails to and from photographers and gotten her input and I booked a photogapher. It been pretty stress free overall besides the fact of my mom putting added pressure.
Any suggestions I or.my fiance have are "terrible" ideas. She outs us down and picks fights.
We are getting married in march and I am dreading the next few months..
What exactly more should I do to make her feel involved but understand this isn't her wedding and her telling us what we are going to do is not ok.. I have tried different methods of.communication and nothing works..
Any suggestions would be appreciated