I'm hoping you can help me out with some advice please.
Still 9 months to go until WD. One of the joint MOH sent bridal party group chat a BM dress link last month, everyone loved them, easy, lets order them.
I'm Paying for and ordering dresses. They are on sale end of line, so slight swiftness needed to get the right sizes before sell out. Would like dresses to match.
BM's got back to me straight away with sizes except one (sister). When i asked her for dress size the day after, she complained saying 'she thought i wasn't ordering them until later on' and took a further week to get her measurements. Eventually, dress ordered (it was on sale and didn't want to miss a size and have to send them all back). (they sent the wrong one and it was out of stock but managed to swap and get the right one for her a week later when one came back in, then sold out again).
So this week a month later i asked her if we can meet up to try her dress, she glosses over/ignores the message about meet up and i don't hear from her until the next day (also she's my younger sister). She messages me making casual conversation until i ask again 'can we meet up and when is she free' to which she says 'there's lots of time'. I ask her, 'does she have lots of time or lots of time before the wedding?' and she confirms the wedding. So i gently say, ideally it needs to be sometime in the next 2 weeks and when is she free? as i'll have to send dress back if it doesn't fit and i just need a little cooperation with a smiley face.
Well she kicks off, calling me rude and that i'm barking orders at her (i.e ask her when was she free to try on a dress)
Anywho, we argued and she blocked me on messenger. I don't feel i should be having so much trouble just asking her when she's free to try on a dress. I suspect it might be a weight issue (she told me she wanted to loose weight and grow out her hair before the wedding, to which i reassured we can always have the dress taken in, as its a lot more tricky to have them taken out) and when i raised it in said conversation, she was outraged. I immediately apologised if i'd offended her and said i didn't just assume but it was based off of what she had talked to me about before.
I was thinking perhaps she's ordered a size smaller than she is so doesn't want to tell me that or try it on? i don't know.
Having her create so much drama so early just feels like a bit of a warning flag as its such a small 2 things I've asked her to do ( get measurements and when she can try on a dress) that's literally all. Am i being a Bridezilla?
I've been upset about it for the last 4 days (i'm still blocked and we haven't spoken) though i could txt her or call, i haven't as i'm a bit disappointed by her reaction.
What should i/can i do? xx