Bonus letter: There's more than 4 friends in the world
I always knew I wasn’t likely to get married or even find a good dude; I always counted on my friends.
Then they got married. Then they moved away. We still hang out and talk regularly so we’re cool, my problem is with my local friends.
My closest local friend who I always used to do everything with is also recently married but has clung to a socialite life that I’m far from. He’s wowed by fake people because of their money and status.
I can’t get over how he doesn’t wanna hang out with me! I can’t get him to call me back, wanna hang out beyond a quick lunch date or do friend shit ever.
I’ve tried to bring it up to him but he thinks it’s a joke. Making friends in my area is super difficult because it’s a very family oriented place—if you aren’t part of the group already or are related to someone in said group you’re dangerous. Help! I miss laughing my ass off with my friend and I miss people! Even my work environment is solo.