I want both my dad and my stepdad to walk me down the aisle. My parents got divorced when I was 10 and my stepdad has been in my life since I was 12. (I will be 29 when I get married.) My dad isn't a bad dad but because I lived with my mom I spent a lot more time with my stepdad. He has been there for all the major life events. I don't want to hurt my dad's feelings but I want to honor my stepdad's presence in my life as well. Any ideas on how to gently break it to my dad that I'll be asking my stepdad to also "give me away"?