So I just watched this - https://youtu.be/KJ9uLFBIBQE
Its a You Tube channel that I occasionally watch they have nice DIY's but they were talking about a Jack and Jill party.
Apparently, it's kind of like a joint bridal shower (which is a thing) but you make up games and people have to pay to play them to help you pay for your wedding!!!!
I was super shocked has anyone heard of this or been to one?????