Okay. My fbil is getting married 6 wks after my FH and I. They asked us if it was okay, and we said yes, why would we care? Because we don't. Anywho...
Every other week or so, they ask a question about our wedding, for example, what our colors are, what our theme is, what my dress looks like, etc because they don't want to do something similar. Part of me feels like it's nice that theyre asking, but the other part of me wants at least some elements of my wedding to not be known, and if they are that worried, then they can wait to attend ours before the plan theirs. There is no way our weddings are going to be similar enough that someone would care, I certainly don't, and weddings as a whole tend to be a bit "trendy" year to year anyway.
So anyway, am I a bitch if I just say, you plan your wedding and we will plan ours and lets just leave it at that? We dont have set colors or a theme or anything like that, so there are no answers to give most of the time. Maybe I'm just frustrated. I almost feel like its four people planning my wedding instead of FH and I.