I have nowhere to put my niece and nephew. We are having a small wedding and my 13 year old is a groomsmen, my 7 year old will be ring bearer. The ceremony site does not allow flower petals of any kind to be tossed, so my 3 year old niece is out as flower girl, and I never really knew what to do with my 6 year old nephew, her brother. Do I have to leave them out? I don't want to do that, it breaks my heart. Help me! Where can I put them??