It has come that time where I really need to sit down and create a guest list since Save the Dates will be coming out soon. With all the wedding planning that I have done so far this is the most stressful. I really wanted a no kid wedding, but in my fiance's family kids are always invited no matter how young they are. I feel like I have to invite my cousin's kids because I don't want them seeing all the kids on my fiance's side and get upset that their's were not invited. And then there is my mother who doesn't want to invite any of my cousin's kids (even the one's who are over 18). Either way I feel like I am going to make someone angry. Then there is the issue of my step cousins. My uncle has two step kids with families. I don't want to invite them since I really don't know them (and honestly I don't think his step daughter's family even knows who I am). Then there is my mother's niece who is remarried and now has two step daughters (1 which I've never met). However, I can't see how I can invite her three kids and not her two step kids. AAHHHHHHH!! Right now I just want to elope.