So I have a weird situation. I invited 10 coworkers to my bridal shower. Only three declined, but on the day of my bridal shower none of them actually showed up. I'm a little annoyed because they kept me aware of the party and said they were all showing up, and they seemed really excited about it, but then to just not show up seems rude, and it is hurtful. Everybody has been quiet at work ever since I have been back to the office and I haven't talked about it. So now I'm not sure if I should bring it up at at all or let it go and ignore the awkwardness. They seem to be coming to the wedding, most already gave me their RSVPs or a verbal rsvp, I'm not sure how to proceed.
the worst part is that my sister said to me that she knew that they wouldn't show up, because they are coworkers and not close friends, and I think she was trying to make me feel better because she said not to let it get to me, but really she shouldn't have even thrown the shower if she didn't wante to invite the people I know.
It was a nice shower, but I'm hurt that soany people didn't show up.