I am the MOH for my best friend's wedding and I love her so much! But she is demanding so much from all her bridesmaids financially. More than half of her bridesmaids are from out of town and have to fly across the country to attend any event. We already went to see her to pick out dresses. Her wedding is during the most expensive month and flying with all of our significant others costs around $1200 per couple. She also never let me plan or have a say in the bachelorette party because she decided what she wanted and that was it and booked it all, even though none of us can afford it or take all that time off work (she wants it to be 5 days long at Disneyland and Vegas) and said who ever can make it can come and who ever can't will miss it. Her mom took over the bridal shower and never asked for our opinions or anything and now that no one can attend and she is upset. I did all the math and I've told her the prices are upwards of around $2000 for us all to attend every event and we are all in our early 20's and can't afford it all, but she just says that we've had time save up and knew this is what came with being in the bridal party when we agreed. She is now mad at me for giving her a reality check that it's not going to happen and she is not going to have everyone at all the events, besides the wedding. What do I do????