A little backstory...my childhood friend who I was close to for the first 18 years of our lives, who now I am not as close to, has recently had a baby within the last year. I’ve done everything I can afford to do as a college student to help her out since she’s a single mother and that’s what friends do. Lately she’s been very ungrateful for the things I’ve been doing for her, so I’ve stopped doing them. A couple months went by and she asked me to pick up something for her since I live in a larger town with access to more things. She then commented on how I haven’t been acting the same so I explained everything that’s been bothering me; the lack of appreciation I’ve felt, the rudeness towards others on social media, the lack of motivation to help herself, the constant excuses on why she can’t get a certain job or pursue online school...the list is endless. Anyways, I decided quite some time ago that I wasn’t going to ask her to be a bridesmaid and I think she expects to be, and likely to be the maid of honor. I don’t think she understands the role that person plays and just how much of a commitment it is, but that aside I don’t know how to tell her she’s invited to the wedding, but not in it. I think she also expects her baby to be involved who will only be 2.5 years old by the time we get married. I don’t want to have someone in the wedding I’m not close with now just for the sentimental reason that we were friends so long ago. What should I do?