My fiance and the groomsmen are getting ready in one of the groomsmen's hotel rooms. My bridemaids, the groomswomen, my mother, my grandmother, and I are getting ready in a large suite that the hotel provides. It is not a hotel suite it is basically two large rooms. One with a bar area and the other area has chairs and couches. The problem is where my brother and father are getting ready. My brother is on my side, but he won't be getting dressed with me because that would be very uncomfortable for myself and the bridesmaids. Fiance is against them getting ready for him (I have no idea why). My parents aren't planning on getting a hotel room because they are just going to drive back and forth since they have animals. I would like to be able to get photos of my father and brother getting ready. The only option I can think of is let them use my grandparents' hotel room which they have offered, but if I want pictures of them getting ready they would have to get ready at like 12 when our photographers first arrive. I don't think they want to be in tuxes for 4.5 hours because the ceremony doesn't start until 4:30. We are doing photos prior to the ceremony at least the bride with her people and the groom with his. We are not doing a first look so after the ceremony is when we would do the couples photos, photos with both families and photos of the entire bridal party. I am doing a first look with my dad though. Any recommendations on what you think we should do to still include my father and brother?