We are having our wedding 5/3/20. I love the look of long tables and I have planned that way for our decorations and seating arrangement. The only thing I am having trouble deciding is where to put my fiance and I. One option is the sweetheart table which I was surprised to see a lot of people on here really favor. Personally, I feel a little odd up there on display, but after I read others sweet sentiments on here about it being alone time with your new spouse among the chaos and how you get up and mingle anyway, I am a little more open to it. A king table is not really an option because we want our bridal party to be able to sit with their dates. Another option is sitting among our guests at some point in the long table.I am just having trouble deciding where to put us and who to sit next to us. I also considering doing a horseshoe or U shaped table and just making us the center so its the best of both worlds, but I am not sure how realistic that is in our venue and worried it may space people out too much. Any guidance or experience anyone can offer?