My fiancé wants to pick a friend that I deeply hate as one of his groomsman. I hate him so much that I don’t even think he should be invited to our wedding!! When my fiancé and I were just boyfriend/girlfriends the friend tried to break us up. He was the friend that sent my fiancé photos of girls to “check out”, invited him out to party with other girls, and tried to dig up dirt about me to convince my fiancé that I was cheating!!! He wants my fiancé to be his wingman so bad that he did whatever it took to separate us. And it worked- we broke up. He called me rock bottom and said I was low because I asked him to stop getting in between us. Fast forward we got back together and got engaged, the friend apologized to me but I don’t trust him at all. I don’t understand why he would want to be part of our wedding. Is it wrong for me to tell my fiancé NO he can’t choose him? Bc my fiancé is now very defensive of him and thinks he was being a good friend. We get into arguments over this friend and it triggers me of why we broke up.