I have 9 nieces; by the time we get married they will be 19,17,15, 9,9, 6, 5,4 &3. I want them all included, as they are all very special to us! I’m fine with the 4 youngest as flower girls, but the complication comes in with the twin 9 year olds, the 15,17 & 19 year old! I have 7 bridesmaids “spots” 4 that I have for sure, and I have 2 that I’d actually love to have as bridesmaids, but might reserve them for the older girls. The twins are REALLY throwing me off. Please help.