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  • I splurged and got Wendy's breakfast this morning.  I love it so much and even indulged in a frosty-cino.

    Actually, my splurge was buying a new phone.  My old phone is cracked in every single corner and across the screen now.  I've known I needed a new one and the Galaxy 10 went on sale for $250 off, so i just took the plunge and got a new one.  I can never talk myself into purchasing a brand new latest model phone b/c they're just so expensive.  I know I use it every day, blah, blah, but it's still always a shock.  Also, I used to work at Circuit City back in the day and I know how much it actually costs to make them; the mark up is truly so ridiculous, I think it should be criminal.

    Anyway, SSDD.  I'm supposed to be getting my new office at work in a couple of weeks and I'm stoked about it.  I can't wait to have my own private space again.  I'm losing the skylight that is above my office now, which I loved just b/c it gave me some natural light, but it's an okay trade off.
  • So the new home tested high for radon.  An abatement system is about $2000.  We will ask the seller to cover the cost of it.  We are hoping they'll accept that or at least pay half.  I understand radon is quite common in our area and I'm glad we decided to get the test as part of our inspection.  

    It's supposed to rain most of the day.  Then 2-3" of snow again this weekend.  Ick.  I could use some sunshine!

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  • short+sassyshort+sassy member
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    edited October 2020
    @kvruns, at least you're up!  I was shocked to see such an early start this morning to WW, lol.  I normally don't check this early, but I'd left this window in my browser from yesterday.

    It's 8AM and I am already thinking about lunch, lol.  A coworker and I are supposed to go out.  I just finished sending her an e-mail with some nearby choices.  Darn it!  Now my appetite is revved up.

    Overall, it feels like a good day.  I'm already looking forward to the weekend and it's not far off.  I'm pretty caught up at work.  Dare I say, even ahead.  I have a mystery shop to do when I get off work.  Busy day tomorrow, but it will be getting a lot of important things checked off my list (personal, not work) and I'm looking forward to that.  I always feel better when I'm making progress!

    Edit:  My coworker has postponed lunch to Monday.  But now I'm in a mood for food after looking at the menus for restaurants I suggested.  I think I'm still going to do take-out, lol.
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  • I'm in a foul mood today. I'm working on a project at work that involves testing our new system. It's a massive project, and my piece is pretty small. Still, my piece doesn't work the way it should, and my protests are getting dismissed. I didn't sleep well last night worrying about what happens if I can't get them to fix it. 

    How much longer until the weekend? 
  • I have this portal from a company to go through. Which is about 500 files so it will take me a solid portion of the day .... guh. I mean I guess it's okay because it will take up time.

    M & I are in a debate. Our living room layout doesn't really have a spot for a tree really, so I suggested getting a felt tree so BK can do it herself. We could use it as where our gifts go for Xmas Eve.
    I suggested just buying this and getting rid of our worn out tree, then waiting for when we move because we'll have a better layout and BK will understand better about the ornaments also {but keep her tree if she's still into it obv}

    M doesn't really wanna get rid of the tree but we gets concept. I kinda just wanna toss it. We were going to toss it before we moved anyways .... idk what it is, but the branches suck. We're considering spending the money for Costco fake trees when we move because the quality is actually there.
    Idk ...
  • I have this portal from a company to go through. Which is about 500 files so it will take me a solid portion of the day .... guh. I mean I guess it's okay because it will take up time.

    M & I are in a debate. Our living room layout doesn't really have a spot for a tree really, so I suggested getting a felt tree so BK can do it herself. We could use it as where our gifts go for Xmas Eve.
    I suggested just buying this and getting rid of our worn out tree, then waiting for when we move because we'll have a better layout and BK will understand better about the ornaments also {but keep her tree if she's still into it obv}

    M doesn't really wanna get rid of the tree but we gets concept. I kinda just wanna toss it. We were going to toss it before we moved anyways .... idk what it is, but the branches suck. We're considering spending the money for Costco fake trees when we move because the quality is actually there.
    Idk ...
    Can you do like one of those 2 ft tabletop trees? Then it will feel more like a Christmas tree to him and still be space-conserving.
  • CasadenaCasadena member
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    edited October 2020
    SIB @MissKittyDanger we did the little tree like flantastic mentioned until we moved into our house a couple years ago.  It was a good compromise!  We also just got a felt tree with velcro ornaments for the babe!  IT's super cute and I think he will really like it. 

    ETA this is what we got
    https://www.amazon.com/jollylife-DIY-Felt-Christmas-Tree/dp/B07K81R16X/ref=sr_1_2_sspa?crid=12226RP378EBM&dchild=1&keywords=felt+tree+for+kids+to+decorate&qid=1603377549&sprefix=felt+tree,aps,180&sr=8-2-spons&psc=1&smid=A1WN36LMZMA2ME&spLa=ZW5jcnlwdGVkUXVhbGlmaWVyPUEyUkdWMDlET01LMzRBJmVuY3J5cHRlZElkPUEwOTg4Njc2M0FTU0RXT0RZTkVURyZlbmNyeXB0ZWRBZElkPUEwODYzMzMzMzZMVUpJUEpaQlJEQiZ3aWRnZXROYW1lPXNwX2F0ZiZhY3Rpb249Y2xpY2tSZWRpcmVjdCZkb05vdExvZ0NsaWNrPXRydWU=

  • @flantastic maybe? Our living room layout is really weird especially with M's desk now there.
    It'd have to be on the edge of the desk - which BK would likely grab and mess around with, which is a concern so it'd depend on the table top kind :\ 

    @Casadena I finally found a felt one on Amazon this year! I've been hunting for one for a bit
  • @MissKittyDanger, I've never heard of a felt tree but that does sound so cute for a baby or toddler to play with!  It sounds like you all aren't putting the tree up anyway because of space so it does make the most sense to throw it out now since that was the plan for when you all move anyway.  But if M wants to keep it for some reason, I'd just humor him.  Then, after the holidays, ask again.  Like, "Okay, Christmas is over.  We'll probably be in a new house for next Christmas and will buy another tree then.  So can we throw this old tree away now?"
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  • Happy Anniversary @missJeanLouise!! 

    I may have cried when H said we shouldn’t do a tree last year @MissKittyDanger because we were redoing the floors; he eventually set up our fake one and we just did lights to make me happy. 
  • Not much here; H took the dog into the woods to run and tire him out. H is going to camp tomorrow for the weekend. My Mom is coming to stay and help out. I feel a little bad but I’m going to an outdoor volunteer event tomorrow & leaving baby for the first time and I insisted she bring my dad along. She took baby for a walk Tuesday when she was here; well she got lost and her phone died and we were trying to get in touch with her. She felt bad but I can’t not be able to get a hold of her when she’s with the baby; or am I overreacting?
  • I'm so glad DH postponed the Scouts meeting tonight.  Last night was long and I'm super tired today.  I did make some really good burgers for dinner. 

    Just trying to make it to the end of the week.  The sun is out today.  YAY!

    Prudie is coming.  
  • Not much here; H took the dog into the woods to run and tire him out. H is going to camp tomorrow for the weekend. My Mom is coming to stay and help out. I feel a little bad but I’m going to an outdoor volunteer event tomorrow & leaving baby for the first time and I insisted she bring my dad along. She took baby for a walk Tuesday when she was here; well she got lost and her phone died and we were trying to get in touch with her. She felt bad but I can’t not be able to get a hold of her when she’s with the baby; or am I overreacting?
    I don't think you're overreacting.  It's your baby and you have to be comfortable with everything and that includes being able to get in touch with the caregiver, that's just babysitting 101 imo. 

    I also think it depends on the person, something like that wouldn't bother me as much with my mom - she's resourceful and can figure things out and she wouldn't get flustered (and neither would be bc we know that about her). My MIL would freak out if that happened and make a big deal about it and it would be a horribly weird and stressful situation.  Bottom line, you feel how you feel and it's totally fine!
  • Casadena said:
    I don't think you're overreacting.  It's your baby and you have to be comfortable with everything and that includes being able to get in touch with the caregiver, that's just babysitting 101 imo. 

    I also think it depends on the person, something like that wouldn't bother me as much with my mom - she's resourceful and can figure things out and she wouldn't get flustered (and neither would be bc we know that about her). My MIL would freak out if that happened and make a big deal about it and it would be a horribly weird and stressful situation.  Bottom line, you feel how you feel and it's totally fine!
    Thanks, that helps! I’m sure everything would have been fine but I’ll be 45 minutes away this time...
  • @charlotte989875 I would be upset. But my mom is the type to leave her phone in her car for 3 days so it is already a sore subject.
  • Thanks, that helps! I’m sure everything would have been fine but I’ll be 45 minutes away this time...
    Nope, not overreacting.  I would have been terrified for my kid AND my mom if that had happened.  I'd ask her to prove her phone is charged up and tell her to just stay at the damn house with her ringer turned up.  I know she felt bad, but you're his mom and need to feel confident in who's caring for him.  Otherwise, you're going to not enjoy yourself doing something you want to do. 
  • Not much here; H took the dog into the woods to run and tire him out. H is going to camp tomorrow for the weekend. My Mom is coming to stay and help out. I feel a little bad but I’m going to an outdoor volunteer event tomorrow & leaving baby for the first time and I insisted she bring my dad along. She took baby for a walk Tuesday when she was here; well she got lost and her phone died and we were trying to get in touch with her. She felt bad but I can’t not be able to get a hold of her when she’s with the baby; or am I overreacting?
    BK is almost 2.5 and I regularly check in with my mum, MIL or daycare randomly when they have her.

    Not overreacting.
  • @MissKittyDanger felt trees are fun, my mom made one for me but they're cheap on Amazon too. Another thought is the Step 2 tree https://www.target.com/p/step2-my-first-christmas-tree/-/A-53747817?

    I got mine for about $25 at Walmart a couple years ago and B still loves it and is already asking about it again
  • mrsconn23 said:
    Nope, not overreacting.  I would have been terrified for my kid AND my mom if that had happened.  I'd ask her to prove her phone is charged up and tell her to just stay at the damn house with her ringer turned up.  I know she felt bad, but you're his mom and need to feel confident in who's caring for him.  Otherwise, you're going to not enjoy yourself doing something you want to do. 
    Thank you! I was worried about her too!  

    I’m finding her a portable charger today too so there’s no reason she can’t be in touch. But also having my dad come with her so there’s at least one adult with a phone. 
  • Got rear-ended on my way to work today.  While sitting at a red light light.  It was foggy but not that foggy.  He was young so called his mom while we were exchanging everything and she said “let’s go through 3rd party”.  Is that a fancy term for she’ll pay out of pocket?  She said we’d speak this evening but I already put in a claim with Geico, just in case.  Ugh. 
  • that sucks @ei34 no injuries just property damage? Definitely a good idea to talk to your insurance to be safe. 
  • Casadena said:
    I just purchased coordinating Christmas jammies for our whole family.  I blame you all. 
    I fully support this decision. 
  • I fully support this decision. 
    I don't even have kids, but was wanting to buy jammies for me after yesterday's posts, lol.  I don't even need them!
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  • Casadena said:
    I just purchased coordinating Christmas jammies for our whole family.  I blame you all. 
    Print? Brand? Etc. I need to know more.


    Also you're welcome
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