Gift giving: I’ve always been a “It’s better to give than receive” type, but is it poor taste to stop exchanging with people who seem to give gifts just for the sake of having something to hand over? My husband and I always try to give thoughtful gifts that are relevant to the receivers’ interests and we receive gifts that are of no use (pajama sets that aren’t in our size, oversized coffee mugs, wine that we don’t drink, etc). We recently mentioned to them that we should “save our money” since it seems all we’re doing is exchanging money and just shopping for the kids in order to not hurt their feelings. Are we wrong in our thinking?