We just got engaged and started talking about wedding details. We were both married before. I was married on a beach with 25 people attending - no reception. He worked his butt off to give his ex the big wedding she wanted. We are set on having a church wedding but we haven't discussed much more than that. My question is: Did anyone throw etiquette out the window? Invite one uncle but not the others? Or a few cousins but not all? I would love to have a few of ex-husbands family there because we are still close. We are actually BOTH close to some of his exes family (even though she hates it). Just curious how it turned out! Its our day and our last wedding. We are 40 and I'm tired of worrying about whether people will be offended. I might be overthinking this but I truly want only the people who love and support us there for our big day. Thanks in advance!