How should I word my wedding invites?!
I want the invites to be formal, but I have no idea what to put for the “host” line.
Many family members are contributing money towards my wedding day celebration:
•My grandparents who raised me are paying for the venue, food, & chair rentals.
• My dad & step-mom are paying for all the extras (florist, coordinator, decor, musicians, invitations, etc)
•My mom paid for my veil and part of my wedding dress.
•The bride & groom are giving about $1,500 towards the wedding cost as well.
I was thinking maybe: “The bride’s family requests your...”
Please help! Suggestions are greatly appreciated ❤️
Re: Addressing Wedding Invites With a Complicated Family
Bride
and
Groom
Request the pleasure of your company....
Neither the finances (who's paying) nor who raised you determines who the hosts are. Wedding invitations are not playbills.
I agree that the "Together with their families" wording @MobKaz suggests is reasonable in your situation.
That said, I'm sorry you've been left out of your daughter's wedding planning. You may want to sit down with your daughter and fsil at some point and ask about their plans; waiting for them to come to you doesn't seem to be working.