I just got engaged after 7 years of dating (yay!) and we are set to have our wedding next summer. My fiance is the youngest of 3 boys. His oldest brother is married and just had a kid, and the middle brother got engaged a month before us (that was filled with drama and brotherly fighting... a story for another time, but I haven't talk to either of them since it happened). Should I make the wife and fiance members of my bridal party? I have the space, but I want to be respectful of the fact one is also planning a wedding and one has a 6 month old. We aren't particularly close, but apart from the engagement drama, we're all friendly. We all live in different states so we don't see each other often and I was hoping we could bond through the process.