First of all, I’ll start this all off by saying the proposal aspect of our engagement is totally just a formality at this point, as we have talked and confirmed that we will get married. My fiancé has attempted a proposal twice now and both have been… very underwhelming. The first time he just came home and said “hey wanna get married?” I said yes because like… yeah we have talked about this before, and then I realized he thought that was a proposal. I explained to him that I would like an actual proposal with a ring etc. and he said agreed and said that this was just the first proposal. Fast forward to just a few weeks ago, he proposed again…after dinner at home while I was in my sweatpants after working a 14 hour day. No words, no anything. Just a hidden ring for me to find and sweets to celebrate after. I do admit I was surprised, but I couldn’t even take a pic or anything as I didn’t want to remember the lackluster circumstances or the fact that I was particularly wearing pajamas. I honestly feel embarrassed even telling people about our proposal story when they ask. I know this is frivolous, but is it too much to ask for a somewhat special proposal?