My father passed away about 2 years ago, in fact, I met my fiance' right after he passed away.
The question keeps coming up in my family about "Who will give me away". I'm not very close with my brother, but he has offered. My mom also offered.
I don't want to offend anyone, but my fiance and I are 100% paying for our own wedding and I really don't feel like anyone needs to "give me away". I'm 32, very independent and I would be 100% okay strutting down the aisle by myself. Is that okay to turn down everyone's request?
Also, there is the matter of the "Father/Daughter dance". My fiance' offered to cut out the Mother/Son dance, but I don't want him to have to - they are very close. Would it be appropriate if my DJ announces "in lieu of the Father/Daughter dance, Christine would like to honor her Dad by having everyone join her in dancing to her favorite song"? My favorite song in the whole wide world is POUR SOME SUGAR ON ME and I think that everyone I know relates that song to me. I also went to my first Def Leppard concert with my Dad, so it has some meaning there too...
Sorry for the long post. Thanks!!!