I have 3 sisters and 2 of them would have their feelings hurt if I picked the other one as my maid of honor. So I made all of them Maids of honor. As far as standing order, I can easily work that to say I want to do it by age or whatever, but I think the other main thing the Maid does is sign as the witness on the marraige certificate, right? I am trying to figure out of that is the only other main issue I will have or are there others? As far as planning the bachelorette party and stuff, thats a non issue as a friend will do it and my sisters are fine with that. And I will let each of them toast if they want - I will make them keep it short but I am OK with that as well.