My preacher requires my fiance and I to get pre-marital counseling. I am really nervous and have no ideawhat to expect (as I am the shy type)! Any one have advice or can tell me what to expect?! Does the preacher ask if we've had sex? (That may be a dumb question, but my friend-- who is not married-- told me they do, and I DO NOT want to tell my preacher who has known me for years that we have before!!!!) Anyone?