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No, you don't need anyone who is ordained to "officiate" your dress up pretend play party. And your "official wedding date" is the day you get married at the courthouse, not when… (View Post)

It's hard, because abusers use isolation as a way to further abuse. But you can't just be someone else's doormat when they won't help themselves. I'd say "my door is always open for you when you… (View Post)

The worst part about the guilting and saying there may be legal obligations is that in a lot of places the legal obligations don't actually start unless/until someone starts making payments/accepts t… (View Post)

My cat is finally calm and sleeping on my after being scared because we moved today, but I have to pee and I'm stuck. I have to build ikea furniture myself bc my husband is useless at is (I like to b… (View Post)

Oh girl, no, this is an OP problem and a no one else problem. OP doesn't get to tell someone else where to get married, and if she does that's basically saying "I care more about myself and my … (View Post)